i just posted this question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081111152341AA32cK5
if i choose to make a move, i want some advice of how to choose when %26amp; how to make a move with her.
TY in advanceNeed advice on how to make a move?
Being mean to her in a smart alikee way isn't the best way to be toward her. I know you said she's different around her friends. Aren't you different around your friends? I just think you need to talk with her and let her know where you stand. Let her know how you feel. It's ok to let a girl know how you feel without being a smarty pants. OMG and I'm showing my age now.......good luck. :o)
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Sex advice....on how to you know...?
Im a female and i have problems i cant get off during sex or other things involving my BF...i know embarasing ....anyone give me some tipsSex advice....on how to you know...?
First learn how to please yourself then let him know what works for you. Men have to be trained on pleasing women, You girls are complicated! Teach us and we will make it worth your effort.Sex advice....on how to you know...?
Work in some extra foreplay before sex. Get yourself all hot and bothered before intercourse. Try new positions,techniques add in some role play.
Also, You know what feels good.Tell your boyfriend what he needs to do and where to touch you.Don't be afraid to bring some toys in.
More foreplay. Perhaps using your own fingers during the foreplay.
Try and see if any positions feel better. Some like doggy style with their shoulders lowered (supposedly improves contact against the g-spot), some like to put their feet on the guy's shoulders (narrows vagina, tighter feeling).
I used to have this problem because I was always in my own head instead of in the moment. Stop worrying about what to do or how to feel. Just enjoy what the physical sensation! Stop thinking! It works, trust me. Let go and lose control for once.
you have to foreplay first try liking and sucking and rubbing,touching and even talking dirty to each other for at least 30 minutes and once you are really horny his dick wont hurt you any more.
Foreplay, lots and lots of foreplay. Use toys, do it yourself. Teach him how to do it better. Umm... try watchin porn while doin it.
If all else fails get a new boyfriend
Hes not doing something right or your not attracted to him.
Tell him straight up or suggest new things be blunt but nice about it, its when people try to beat around the bush is when they feel affended
If stimulanting the G spot and clitiriois isn't working you might need some cocaine down there. Promise this will work.
Communication, let him know what you want and what makes you feel good.
Try different positions and see if any of them work for you.
experiment try all diffrent styles and if need b have role plays in the bedroom
lolz
First learn how to please yourself then let him know what works for you. Men have to be trained on pleasing women, You girls are complicated! Teach us and we will make it worth your effort.Sex advice....on how to you know...?
Work in some extra foreplay before sex. Get yourself all hot and bothered before intercourse. Try new positions,techniques add in some role play.
Also, You know what feels good.Tell your boyfriend what he needs to do and where to touch you.Don't be afraid to bring some toys in.
More foreplay. Perhaps using your own fingers during the foreplay.
Try and see if any positions feel better. Some like doggy style with their shoulders lowered (supposedly improves contact against the g-spot), some like to put their feet on the guy's shoulders (narrows vagina, tighter feeling).
I used to have this problem because I was always in my own head instead of in the moment. Stop worrying about what to do or how to feel. Just enjoy what the physical sensation! Stop thinking! It works, trust me. Let go and lose control for once.
you have to foreplay first try liking and sucking and rubbing,touching and even talking dirty to each other for at least 30 minutes and once you are really horny his dick wont hurt you any more.
Foreplay, lots and lots of foreplay. Use toys, do it yourself. Teach him how to do it better. Umm... try watchin porn while doin it.
If all else fails get a new boyfriend
Hes not doing something right or your not attracted to him.
Tell him straight up or suggest new things be blunt but nice about it, its when people try to beat around the bush is when they feel affended
If stimulanting the G spot and clitiriois isn't working you might need some cocaine down there. Promise this will work.
Communication, let him know what you want and what makes you feel good.
Try different positions and see if any of them work for you.
experiment try all diffrent styles and if need b have role plays in the bedroom
lolz
How to organise everything in a house. from caepet,sofa cleaning to arranging books in racks. advice needed.?
Get a diary and set up a schedule in it.
How often you shampoo your carpets and clean your soft furnishings depends on how much traffic there is through the house, and the type of traffic there is.
I have children and animals. I bought a carpet washer two years ago, and I think it was the best investment I ever made, as it means I can shampoo my own carpets once a month, and quickly deal with spills or accidents as they happen.
Because I have kids and animals, I also have couches with removable covers for washing. I wash those once a month (at least), and wash all throws and small cushion covers once weekly.
My curtains are also washable, and I only wash those about four times a year.
Everything in my house has a 'home'. I'm a lazy housekeeper at the best of times, so unless I do it that way, nothing would ever get done! Everything gets put back where it came from when we're done using it, so that there's no build up of clutter and mess.
I have wooden floors downstairs, I wash them daily - takes about ten minutes. If there was any mess or clutter lying around, I wouldn't bother!
Upstairs I have carpet, so again, I can vacuum in about ten minutes in the morning, as long as there's nothing in my way.
Bookshelves and filing cabinets are my downfall! No advice there, I'm afraid. I buy a lot of books, and hate to let any go, so about once a year I will strip everything back to the bare minimum and donate what I can bear to part with to charity. I have to say that my bookshelves are packed to the brim at the moment. Likewise with the filing cabinet.... I promised myself I'd do a big clear out over the holidays, but so far I've found excellent excuses to avoid it!
I think it all comes down to a system - once you set things up so that the basic cleaning and tidying can be done quickly and easily, the rest can be worked on.
I set myself one chore daily in addition to the quick basic run through, so that on Mondays, for instance, I clean the kitchen - ie fridge, microwave, drawers, cupboards and shelves - takes about a half hour. Tuesdays I clean all downstairs glass, Wednesdays I do big tidy out of airing cupboard and wardrobes, Thursdays I do the bedrooms - dusting and tidying and changing bed linen, Friday is upstairs glass and yardwork. I allow about a half hour and work fast to get it done - then I can forget about it for the rest of the week.
I also think you should never spend more than an hour over the day doing housework - any more than that is too much! I think a half hour in the morning and another half hour in the evening is plenty.
Good luck - I hope you get everything organised!How to organise everything in a house. from caepet,sofa cleaning to arranging books in racks. advice needed.?
FIrst - get rid of the clutter - a good rule - throw out one bag a day of junk until you feel that that clutter is under control. Then start one room at a time. Do not start on new room until the other ones are done. It is very important to keep decluttering all the time. One new thing in the house - get rid of one old thing. This will help keep the house looking very organized.How to organise everything in a house. from caepet,sofa cleaning to arranging books in racks. advice needed.?
Do it room by room make a list of what needs doing give yourself a time slot for each job then tick it off the list when its done asking family and friends to give you a hand as well could be helpful I know how you feel I ve got lots to sort out as well!
How often you shampoo your carpets and clean your soft furnishings depends on how much traffic there is through the house, and the type of traffic there is.
I have children and animals. I bought a carpet washer two years ago, and I think it was the best investment I ever made, as it means I can shampoo my own carpets once a month, and quickly deal with spills or accidents as they happen.
Because I have kids and animals, I also have couches with removable covers for washing. I wash those once a month (at least), and wash all throws and small cushion covers once weekly.
My curtains are also washable, and I only wash those about four times a year.
Everything in my house has a 'home'. I'm a lazy housekeeper at the best of times, so unless I do it that way, nothing would ever get done! Everything gets put back where it came from when we're done using it, so that there's no build up of clutter and mess.
I have wooden floors downstairs, I wash them daily - takes about ten minutes. If there was any mess or clutter lying around, I wouldn't bother!
Upstairs I have carpet, so again, I can vacuum in about ten minutes in the morning, as long as there's nothing in my way.
Bookshelves and filing cabinets are my downfall! No advice there, I'm afraid. I buy a lot of books, and hate to let any go, so about once a year I will strip everything back to the bare minimum and donate what I can bear to part with to charity. I have to say that my bookshelves are packed to the brim at the moment. Likewise with the filing cabinet.... I promised myself I'd do a big clear out over the holidays, but so far I've found excellent excuses to avoid it!
I think it all comes down to a system - once you set things up so that the basic cleaning and tidying can be done quickly and easily, the rest can be worked on.
I set myself one chore daily in addition to the quick basic run through, so that on Mondays, for instance, I clean the kitchen - ie fridge, microwave, drawers, cupboards and shelves - takes about a half hour. Tuesdays I clean all downstairs glass, Wednesdays I do big tidy out of airing cupboard and wardrobes, Thursdays I do the bedrooms - dusting and tidying and changing bed linen, Friday is upstairs glass and yardwork. I allow about a half hour and work fast to get it done - then I can forget about it for the rest of the week.
I also think you should never spend more than an hour over the day doing housework - any more than that is too much! I think a half hour in the morning and another half hour in the evening is plenty.
Good luck - I hope you get everything organised!How to organise everything in a house. from caepet,sofa cleaning to arranging books in racks. advice needed.?
FIrst - get rid of the clutter - a good rule - throw out one bag a day of junk until you feel that that clutter is under control. Then start one room at a time. Do not start on new room until the other ones are done. It is very important to keep decluttering all the time. One new thing in the house - get rid of one old thing. This will help keep the house looking very organized.How to organise everything in a house. from caepet,sofa cleaning to arranging books in racks. advice needed.?
Do it room by room make a list of what needs doing give yourself a time slot for each job then tick it off the list when its done asking family and friends to give you a hand as well could be helpful I know how you feel I ve got lots to sort out as well!
Please read this now......... I really need some advice on how to get rid of annoying junk mail............?
Do I need to close my existing account, and open a new one......... so I won't have so much junk? I have virus protection, but getting 400- or so junk mails a week is just crazy. Anyone have suggestions to get rid of this problem? Thanks so much........ and by the way........... hope you all have a great day. :)Please read this now......... I really need some advice on how to get rid of annoying junk mail............?
If you are with Yahoo-----they offer spam protection, but you need to make sure spam guard is activated.
On mail page---click on '; options';---scroll to and click on ';spam protection';. Is spam guard turned on? Then make sure the box is checked that says ';send address to the blocked folder';-----or something like that. Be sure to save any changes.
Also---virus protection doesn't stop spam---just viruses. You should never open spam and NEVER click on the unsubscribe link----that only verifies an active account and they just laugh, high 5 each other, and sell your address to other scammers --generating more and more junk.
So set your guard and start clicking spam and let Yahoo take care of it, by deleting and blocking future mail from that site. You should see a reduction soon.Please read this now......... I really need some advice on how to get rid of annoying junk mail............?
Here are some things I do...
I have 2 e-mail accounts. My regular one and one that i use whenever i shop online, fill out forms, anything I do that doesnt have to do with business and friends.
Set your settings so that all of your email that is not from a contact goes to your BULK mail box...then you can MASS DELETE it all at once!!
Set your security level to HIGH.
Here is the best advice...If most of your spam is advertisments...open up the e-mail and scroll to the bottom and there is, more often than not, an UNSUBSCRIBE option. Everyday UNSUBSCRIBE from these e-mails and within a weeks your Junk mail should be reduced!!
These tips should help you not have to resort to deleting your account!!
Can you set your span level at high level?mask making
If you are with Yahoo-----they offer spam protection, but you need to make sure spam guard is activated.
On mail page---click on '; options';---scroll to and click on ';spam protection';. Is spam guard turned on? Then make sure the box is checked that says ';send address to the blocked folder';-----or something like that. Be sure to save any changes.
Also---virus protection doesn't stop spam---just viruses. You should never open spam and NEVER click on the unsubscribe link----that only verifies an active account and they just laugh, high 5 each other, and sell your address to other scammers --generating more and more junk.
So set your guard and start clicking spam and let Yahoo take care of it, by deleting and blocking future mail from that site. You should see a reduction soon.Please read this now......... I really need some advice on how to get rid of annoying junk mail............?
Here are some things I do...
I have 2 e-mail accounts. My regular one and one that i use whenever i shop online, fill out forms, anything I do that doesnt have to do with business and friends.
Set your settings so that all of your email that is not from a contact goes to your BULK mail box...then you can MASS DELETE it all at once!!
Set your security level to HIGH.
Here is the best advice...If most of your spam is advertisments...open up the e-mail and scroll to the bottom and there is, more often than not, an UNSUBSCRIBE option. Everyday UNSUBSCRIBE from these e-mails and within a weeks your Junk mail should be reduced!!
These tips should help you not have to resort to deleting your account!!
Can you set your span level at high level?
Advice on how to ask a girl to hangout?
Ive liked this girl for aaages and i really want a chance to be with her.
I want to ask her to hang out like go cinema or maybe just a chill in a park.
We livewithin 5-10 minutes of each other so wouldnt be a problem to meet
She split up from boyfriend about a month ago, but she used to like me before she was with him, will she ever like me again or has she gone off me?
we work at same place, i know her through colleges (our colleges are like brother and sister ones and we are both 17)
PS, is the park to crappy/cheap?
We have each others numbers and have known each other for like 2 years, weve been texting recently but i dont want to scare her off.Advice on how to ask a girl to hangout?
yo bud, girls like it when you keep it classy for example ';Hey i'm just about to go for coffee, would you like to join me?'; so it dosn't scare her off by asking her straight out. It will just make her feel more comfortable...GoodluckAdvice on how to ask a girl to hangout?
the park isn't crappy or cheap. it's really sweet. just ask her if you would like to hang out. just text her and start talking and after awhile ask her to hang out. she'll probably say sure.
good luck! =D
yh just ask her out to walk the dogs to the park or something and then tell her you like her
Be good friends first and go out to the cinema or whatever...
Phone her and talk with her a lot. She maybe would like to go out herself. But I don't think park is like 'cheap' or something. I'd love to go to park with guy who I like. It's place where you can talk a lot and get to know better. But if you aren't big talker then just go out to cinema or dinner or something. Even playing billiard or bowling, it's really fun.
Just if you see her then talk to her a lot or phone her and talk and if you are ending the converstation then ask her maybe she wants to go out some day? hope i helped :)
I want to ask her to hang out like go cinema or maybe just a chill in a park.
We livewithin 5-10 minutes of each other so wouldnt be a problem to meet
She split up from boyfriend about a month ago, but she used to like me before she was with him, will she ever like me again or has she gone off me?
we work at same place, i know her through colleges (our colleges are like brother and sister ones and we are both 17)
PS, is the park to crappy/cheap?
We have each others numbers and have known each other for like 2 years, weve been texting recently but i dont want to scare her off.Advice on how to ask a girl to hangout?
yo bud, girls like it when you keep it classy for example ';Hey i'm just about to go for coffee, would you like to join me?'; so it dosn't scare her off by asking her straight out. It will just make her feel more comfortable...GoodluckAdvice on how to ask a girl to hangout?
the park isn't crappy or cheap. it's really sweet. just ask her if you would like to hang out. just text her and start talking and after awhile ask her to hang out. she'll probably say sure.
good luck! =D
yh just ask her out to walk the dogs to the park or something and then tell her you like her
Be good friends first and go out to the cinema or whatever...
Phone her and talk with her a lot. She maybe would like to go out herself. But I don't think park is like 'cheap' or something. I'd love to go to park with guy who I like. It's place where you can talk a lot and get to know better. But if you aren't big talker then just go out to cinema or dinner or something. Even playing billiard or bowling, it's really fun.
Just if you see her then talk to her a lot or phone her and talk and if you are ending the converstation then ask her maybe she wants to go out some day? hope i helped :)
Advice about how to deal with my in-laws, help!!?
Here's the thing; 18 months ago I was working for this guy, he was married with 3 children, and in the duration I was there, he constantly made sexual advances towards me, on 2 occasions he attempted to try and force himself on me, and when I refused to perform a sex act on him, he sacked me, anyhow, this man owed me 2 months pay, he ignored all my calls asking for the money and being so silly, I never thought to go to the poilce about his behaviour ( I was 19 and frightened) anyway, because of loosing my job it lead to all sorts of problems at home, my dad simply refused to believe he had sacked me over my uncooperation to please him sexually, but lack of knowledge on the system meant I didn't really know my rights and within 6 weeks of being sacked things had become so bad at home I left.. anyway, walking past my ex employees office one day (it was a small office and only he worked there) I noticed he had employed another young, attractive girl and I was furious, he still had not paid me and due to all the problems, I was living in rented accomodation and not speaking to my family. so I stole his cheque book and wrote myself out cheques for the amount he owed me, anyway, to cut a very long story short I was arrested and given a suspended sentence and community service, my problem now is, my fiances parents know about this ( it was actually reported on in a local paper) and they will not talk to me, we have recently bought a flat together and they have not been here, before they knew about what I had done I never felt they liked me, I overheard his mum calling me lazy, even though I have a full time job, I make my fiance breakfast before he goes out, lunch to take with him and dinner when he is home, I do all the washing and most of the cleaning, also, due to him not having an overly high income I pay the mortgage- I have never been nicer to his parents but they hate me, me getting into trouble was a complete one off, I now have a very good job in journalism, I take excellent care of my fiance, he has never once gone home crying over me- these people are ever so set in their ways and rather small minded but it is causing such problems, my fiance refuses to think there is a problem, i have seen various texts on his phone from his mum obviously trying to seperate him from me, long before they knew about me getting into trouble they excluded me, now it seems they are using this as an excuse, in the last year I have really got my life together, I am so happy in every other aspect but his parents cause so many problems between us, what can i do? how can I deal with this??Advice about how to deal with my in-laws, help!!?
you did sth illegal and you paid for it. that should be the end of the matter, but apparently your in laws TO BE are not ok with it. just re-read the words in capitals. you are basing your happiness on people who are not related to you in any way.
maybe you also need to look at your own behavior. you are acting guilty even tho you paid the price for your crime (a crime i wd have committed too!) by spoiling your man you are showing him that the crap his parents are feeding you does not matter. stop trying to prove that you are not lazy- they have made up their minds about you. and if your fiance will not step in to protect you, perhaps you need to ask yourself why you feel you must stay in the relationship. seems to me you are the only one in it anyhow. sit them all down and tell them that they can either accept you for who you are or they can go hang.Advice about how to deal with my in-laws, help!!?
Just leave them as far as you love him and heis not making you sad,just make him happy and leave them en assume they exisit
you did sth illegal and you paid for it. that should be the end of the matter, but apparently your in laws TO BE are not ok with it. just re-read the words in capitals. you are basing your happiness on people who are not related to you in any way.
maybe you also need to look at your own behavior. you are acting guilty even tho you paid the price for your crime (a crime i wd have committed too!) by spoiling your man you are showing him that the crap his parents are feeding you does not matter. stop trying to prove that you are not lazy- they have made up their minds about you. and if your fiance will not step in to protect you, perhaps you need to ask yourself why you feel you must stay in the relationship. seems to me you are the only one in it anyhow. sit them all down and tell them that they can either accept you for who you are or they can go hang.Advice about how to deal with my in-laws, help!!?
Just leave them as far as you love him and heis not making you sad,just make him happy and leave them en assume they exisit
Advice on how to approach him today?
okay well...i'm going to a fall festival in about an hour and this hot guy, with a great personality, whom i have had a crush on, is going to be there. he's bi, but not out yet, only to an exclusive group of people, one of whom told me, because i said i thought he was hot. i'm also only out to two people. he should be there, and i was wondering do you guys have any advice on how to approach him if i see him? he kinda knows me, we're acquaintances...but we don't really keep any contact, mostly just saying hi if we see each other. do you think that if we see each other and say hi that i could make a comment and hope it'll start a conversation? or will that seem like i'm too pushy? please i really need advice, it's the first time i've ever thought about approaching a guy i like. i'm 14 and he's 15 if that matters...well actually he might be 16 by now...and we're both sophmores.Advice on how to approach him today?
sounds like a plan to me... if you think he might like you too it's better to be asked then doing the asking though... tell your mutual friend to let him know your interested... isn't it fun?! been there!!Advice on how to approach him today?
But him a hot dog lol. You are bound to get a chance to talk private wait for the opportunity. Approaching somebody in this day and age don't get you punched out. If he refuses he should do it gracefully
I think that if you know hes bi then you have to go for it, all out.
Just talk and chat him up. Its not a big deal, and if nothing else, he will be flattered that you like him.
the first thing is that you two are both too young to date anyway, not matter what sex you are attracted to. be friends first.
sounds like a plan to me... if you think he might like you too it's better to be asked then doing the asking though... tell your mutual friend to let him know your interested... isn't it fun?! been there!!Advice on how to approach him today?
But him a hot dog lol. You are bound to get a chance to talk private wait for the opportunity. Approaching somebody in this day and age don't get you punched out. If he refuses he should do it gracefully
I think that if you know hes bi then you have to go for it, all out.
Just talk and chat him up. Its not a big deal, and if nothing else, he will be flattered that you like him.
the first thing is that you two are both too young to date anyway, not matter what sex you are attracted to. be friends first.
Advice on how to improve my running times and technique!?
Looking for advice on how to build up my running.
Done a LOT of research, subscriber to a running mag, been running a lot recently.
But I just can't seem to be able to run longer than 3 mins at a time! I run out of breath and it hurts to keep breathing!
My legs and feet feel as though they could go on forever however!
I could eat a little healthier, this is true, but I am a size 8/10 (size 6/8 US I think.) BMI all fine. Sleep well. Active and healthy.
Should I eat before running, how long before, and what kind of food?
Should I train my body, 2 mins run, 2 mins fast walk?
Help please! I wanna be able to start running properly every day.
xAdvice on how to improve my running times and technique!?
Set yourself to a time run as long as you can run slowly, even if it is as slow as you walk keep running its all mental. you just have to overcome your mental block. don't run right after you eat, run either before or 2 hours after it will make you lighter and you will be able to run faster.
Done a LOT of research, subscriber to a running mag, been running a lot recently.
But I just can't seem to be able to run longer than 3 mins at a time! I run out of breath and it hurts to keep breathing!
My legs and feet feel as though they could go on forever however!
I could eat a little healthier, this is true, but I am a size 8/10 (size 6/8 US I think.) BMI all fine. Sleep well. Active and healthy.
Should I eat before running, how long before, and what kind of food?
Should I train my body, 2 mins run, 2 mins fast walk?
Help please! I wanna be able to start running properly every day.
xAdvice on how to improve my running times and technique!?
Set yourself to a time run as long as you can run slowly, even if it is as slow as you walk keep running its all mental. you just have to overcome your mental block. don't run right after you eat, run either before or 2 hours after it will make you lighter and you will be able to run faster.
Advice on how to find a car cheap?
A friend of mine needs a car to get to and from work. His girlfriend has a disability and can't work. The guy has been working regularly for a month and a half but has bad credit because he had been out of work for a couple of years before and was having a really hard time. He now makes just above minimum wage and works full time. There is no public transportation to his place of work, it's too far to walk and too cold and often too icy to bike. For the moment I've been giving him rides but I can't keep up with this. Renting a car is too expensive, the taxi is outrageously expensive and he doesn't have a co-worker who could give him a lift. It's out of the question to change jobs in the precarious job market of today. He doesn't know anything about fixing up a car. Anybody got an idea on how to find a car cheap? Advice on how to find a car cheap?
Tell him to look for police auctions in or around his city. Every car that is impounded is sold at almost a steal, and sometimes, there are some nice, almost luxourious vehicle for under 5,000$. Most cars at poliuce auctions go for around 1500$-3000$, or sometimes, even under 1000$. police auctions are the way to go if you ask me.
Or he can even buy a used police car off of ebay motors. Police Cars are Really Reliable, and have aftermarket parts in them, and if they do break down, or something on the car is broken, the parts are some of the cheapest an the market to fix, because every police agency in the US has to use them, and need them cheap. Used Police Cars go for around 2500$-6500$ for a gently used one. Hope this HelpedAdvice on how to find a car cheap?
Maybe he should try and save up and go to an Auto Auction. Or go to autotrader.com and make sure you put the Maximum you would pay for the car, I did that to find my car for $1, 800 Kia. Oh and Kia's usually are cheap cars. Good Luck!
One word Craigslist, http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites
Tell him to look for police auctions in or around his city. Every car that is impounded is sold at almost a steal, and sometimes, there are some nice, almost luxourious vehicle for under 5,000$. Most cars at poliuce auctions go for around 1500$-3000$, or sometimes, even under 1000$. police auctions are the way to go if you ask me.
Or he can even buy a used police car off of ebay motors. Police Cars are Really Reliable, and have aftermarket parts in them, and if they do break down, or something on the car is broken, the parts are some of the cheapest an the market to fix, because every police agency in the US has to use them, and need them cheap. Used Police Cars go for around 2500$-6500$ for a gently used one. Hope this HelpedAdvice on how to find a car cheap?
Maybe he should try and save up and go to an Auto Auction. Or go to autotrader.com and make sure you put the Maximum you would pay for the car, I did that to find my car for $1, 800 Kia. Oh and Kia's usually are cheap cars. Good Luck!
One word Craigslist, http://www.craigslist.org/about/sites
Advice on how to deal with overly judgmental parents?
I am twenty years old and a sophomore in college/university. This semester for me was simply awful. I had a lot of stress since i am transferring schools and some of my courses weren't for me at all- thus my grades suffered poorly. I'll admit, i had a case of being lazy too.
My parents are very strict and demand to see my grades every semester, something i wasn't looking forward to since i received a D in one of my classes. This is very unlike me and i was embarassed, but they always blow it out of proportion. Instead of understanding that i had one bad semester, they attack me with insults and tell me how stupid i am and how they're so sick of hearing how everyone else's child is on the deans list, etc.
It really, really hurts me and puts me down and now i just feel completely awful, but there is no way to talk to them and get any point across. What do i do?Advice on how to deal with overly judgmental parents?
Are you away at school or do you live at home and attend school? I don't know why they would insult you or make you feel as though you weren't good enough. That is just plain awful. I could understand them pushing you to do your best, but when your best just doesn't cut it sometimes, it isn't a reason to insult you.
I would try telling them how they are making you feel. They may not realize that what they are saying is harming you more than it is pushing you to do better.
If that doesn't work and you attend school away from home and they foot the bill for tuition, books, room and board, etc., then look into ways of getting your own loans by having a relative co-sigh for you or apply for scholarships or both. Maybe you could get a part-time job to help cover other expenses you have. I am not saying to run and do that. I would suggest talking to them about how they are making you feel first. A D isn't good, but it is still passing and isn't the end of the world, you could even retake the course to improve your grade.
Everything will work out, you will see. Talk to you parents, be honest, and non-confrontational. Let them know how you feel. Best of luck to you.Advice on how to deal with overly judgmental parents?
Well, I see why and how they would be mad about your D, but I bet you could have made that better. And its good that your being completelyst about saying that you have been lazy. But next semissemesternext school year take you classes more serisseriouslyr parents are paying for college, and I am sure they wanted you to do and try YOUR best, not be THE best, but its possible to be YOUR best. But that was wrong of them to call you stupid.
First of all they are your parents and they are supposed to love you. so whatever you do they'll understand they just make you feel bad so you try harder. Its psychological. Just try to do your best and make them know that your grown now and they should not be on your case. Tell them its your future which is in stake not theirs.
Just listen, agree and get on with life.They are looking out for whats best for you, its their way of showing love. I know it hurts you, but they dont know any better. and if they are paying the bill for college then u have certain demands that u have to live up to.
Really off my opinion my parents also are insane and make a big deal out of something small but i learned to just reason with them and your class dilemma may be stress-induced from your parents
That sounds dreadful, not really very supportive at all.
I mean how can they expect you to perform given the ';encouragement'; that they are giving....
I'd be interested to know what scores they have, and if they spend any time on ';educational'; activities.
some parents just don't seem to understand that part of the educational experience is their responsibility, and the things they do have an effect on your performance..
BTW why did you transfer schools?? obviously it is completely unrealistic that they are doing this to you as you are having to deal with the changes (that they probably caused)
Do you live at home? You are 20 years old and they need to let go of the control they have over you. You also need to put your foot down and stand up for yourself. My son tells me when I am out of line and I understand why. (I am just being a Mom) but in his eyes he thinks some things are ridiculous and he is not afraid to tell me. Them nagging you isn't helping you, it is actually putting more pressure on you , that you don't need or deserve. You are a sophomore and you do have good study habits at this point or you would have been gone already, so give yourself credit! Don't be hard on yourself, we all go through that when we are stressed. You are doing a good job, no matter what they say! Believe in yourself and tell them it really is up to you to make the grade and that they aren't helping you by interrogating you about grades! (My son is going to grad school this fall out of state) You can do it, be confident and believe in yourself! Good Luck!
But at the same time it's still wrong for them to call you stupid and it's very stupid for them to comapre you to other kids. You are their kid and they should be proud of you no matter what, regardless if they're paying for school. You're paying them back by not dropping out and for possible taking care of them when they get old just as they did when you were a baby.
My father in law is the exact same way, except that he has to control EVERYTHING and if you don't like his rules well he'll throw you out, he doesn't care if there's a 10 month old baby involved.
We deal with him by not visiting him, we just go visit the mother in law. His three older kids are the same way, they just don't visit him.
But if you're still living with them then the ONLY way to deal with it, honestly, is to just move out or continue to live with the abuse. Moving out would be better though because the abuse will take it's toll on you.mask making
My parents are very strict and demand to see my grades every semester, something i wasn't looking forward to since i received a D in one of my classes. This is very unlike me and i was embarassed, but they always blow it out of proportion. Instead of understanding that i had one bad semester, they attack me with insults and tell me how stupid i am and how they're so sick of hearing how everyone else's child is on the deans list, etc.
It really, really hurts me and puts me down and now i just feel completely awful, but there is no way to talk to them and get any point across. What do i do?Advice on how to deal with overly judgmental parents?
Are you away at school or do you live at home and attend school? I don't know why they would insult you or make you feel as though you weren't good enough. That is just plain awful. I could understand them pushing you to do your best, but when your best just doesn't cut it sometimes, it isn't a reason to insult you.
I would try telling them how they are making you feel. They may not realize that what they are saying is harming you more than it is pushing you to do better.
If that doesn't work and you attend school away from home and they foot the bill for tuition, books, room and board, etc., then look into ways of getting your own loans by having a relative co-sigh for you or apply for scholarships or both. Maybe you could get a part-time job to help cover other expenses you have. I am not saying to run and do that. I would suggest talking to them about how they are making you feel first. A D isn't good, but it is still passing and isn't the end of the world, you could even retake the course to improve your grade.
Everything will work out, you will see. Talk to you parents, be honest, and non-confrontational. Let them know how you feel. Best of luck to you.Advice on how to deal with overly judgmental parents?
Well, I see why and how they would be mad about your D, but I bet you could have made that better. And its good that your being completelyst about saying that you have been lazy. But next semissemesternext school year take you classes more serisseriouslyr parents are paying for college, and I am sure they wanted you to do and try YOUR best, not be THE best, but its possible to be YOUR best. But that was wrong of them to call you stupid.
First of all they are your parents and they are supposed to love you. so whatever you do they'll understand they just make you feel bad so you try harder. Its psychological. Just try to do your best and make them know that your grown now and they should not be on your case. Tell them its your future which is in stake not theirs.
Just listen, agree and get on with life.They are looking out for whats best for you, its their way of showing love. I know it hurts you, but they dont know any better. and if they are paying the bill for college then u have certain demands that u have to live up to.
Really off my opinion my parents also are insane and make a big deal out of something small but i learned to just reason with them and your class dilemma may be stress-induced from your parents
That sounds dreadful, not really very supportive at all.
I mean how can they expect you to perform given the ';encouragement'; that they are giving....
I'd be interested to know what scores they have, and if they spend any time on ';educational'; activities.
some parents just don't seem to understand that part of the educational experience is their responsibility, and the things they do have an effect on your performance..
BTW why did you transfer schools?? obviously it is completely unrealistic that they are doing this to you as you are having to deal with the changes (that they probably caused)
Do you live at home? You are 20 years old and they need to let go of the control they have over you. You also need to put your foot down and stand up for yourself. My son tells me when I am out of line and I understand why. (I am just being a Mom) but in his eyes he thinks some things are ridiculous and he is not afraid to tell me. Them nagging you isn't helping you, it is actually putting more pressure on you , that you don't need or deserve. You are a sophomore and you do have good study habits at this point or you would have been gone already, so give yourself credit! Don't be hard on yourself, we all go through that when we are stressed. You are doing a good job, no matter what they say! Believe in yourself and tell them it really is up to you to make the grade and that they aren't helping you by interrogating you about grades! (My son is going to grad school this fall out of state) You can do it, be confident and believe in yourself! Good Luck!
But at the same time it's still wrong for them to call you stupid and it's very stupid for them to comapre you to other kids. You are their kid and they should be proud of you no matter what, regardless if they're paying for school. You're paying them back by not dropping out and for possible taking care of them when they get old just as they did when you were a baby.
My father in law is the exact same way, except that he has to control EVERYTHING and if you don't like his rules well he'll throw you out, he doesn't care if there's a 10 month old baby involved.
We deal with him by not visiting him, we just go visit the mother in law. His three older kids are the same way, they just don't visit him.
But if you're still living with them then the ONLY way to deal with it, honestly, is to just move out or continue to live with the abuse. Moving out would be better though because the abuse will take it's toll on you.
Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
my friend is a sun Leo...an ultra Leo (his rising sign is Leo)....our friendship is close and we really like each other. we have our great differences, yet we have so much in common and we think alike. but i have also experienced some difficulties with him. for example, when we have chatted on messenger, i have accidently typed the wrong messaage to him (it was for another person i was chatting with), i appologize to him, then he seems to get unhappy, and tells me that we should chat some other time. why does he do this?? i am perfectly able to chat with several persons simultaneously! other times, when ive takend longer to respond to respond to him, he gets mad and assmumes that i no longer want to talk to him. he makes many wrong assmumptions then assumes they're all true...and it frustrates me. the only way i can get him to snap out of it is telling him and assuring him that i really do like him.
can i get some advice to get him to stop making many wrong assumptions??Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
skip the clown outfit..he wont like it.. whats your sign?
He wants devotion...dont expect to chat with others when he is talking with you...Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
such a shame that such a ******* duma** answer got chosen!!
Speaking as an Ultra-Leo myself... You will never stop him making these assumptions...
He is right, you are wrong.. Whatever the situation (or at least, this is how he sees it)
If you take the situation where you were chatting to multiple people... This is your bad... You cannot be giving him your full attention, therefore.. You feel he is not worthy of any attention at all (He will think)
Similarly, if you take a long time to answer, he will assume that you are doing something that you consider more important - He will take this as a personal slieght.
Ultra-Leo males are hair-triggered and impulsive. They are also fiercely loyal, but get extremely upset if this loyalty is not mirrored in other people..
They have to be the most important, correct, trustworth, likeable, popular person in the room..
If you don't pray at the altar of the Ultra-Leo.. You'd better watch out..
Their Egos are fragile - And when they do shatter, they do so with a bang - Which can lead to depression problems when the realities of life come flooding home to them..
I have been with my Leo man for 5 years and I know exactly what your going through. What this guy is doing is trying to get all of your attention. He doesn't like the fact that you chat with other people. Even if you don't like another guy and you told him you like him. In his mind he comes first if you like him. And, he also thinks that if you like him so much there should be no need to chat with anybody else whether their males or females. Leo men can be insanely jealous!!!!!
If you really like this guy and you want something with him such as a relationship then I want you to know right now that he is going to demand all of your attention. If he doesn't get it he's going to throw a fit in some form or fashion so that he does get your attention. Just flatter him and tell him things about himself that sound really great. Even if they aren't to you just tell him anyway because a Leo man loves nothing more than to be told something good about himself. Just remember the two main important things. Give him a lot of attention, and boost his ego. (Even though it's already inflated) *lol*
I have my Leo man eating out of the palm of my hand. I do both of these things constantly with my man and I swear he tries to give me the world. Leo's are very generous and romantic so once you get on their good side and truly have their love then you have hit the jackpot. If your the type that's not into giving attention, etc..... then you should probably move on. Either way good luck!!! I'm a Sagittarius by the way.
P.S
Sorry for writing a book *lol*
Lowlevel pretty much hit the nail on the head with this one. Leos have extremely tender egos, but you'd never know because they are constantly putting themselves on a pedestal. They are the Kings of the Jungle, or at least in their own minds, they are. They don't like being told what to do or being out of control in a situation. This was certainly the case with my Leo ex. Also, they are a Fixed Sign, which accounts for the stubbornness. When they put their foots down, that's it. There's no way their gonna budge from their mind set. I'd say, be patient, give the lion a chance to cool off, and then go back, nice and sweetly. Stroke his ego and tell him how much you value the friendship. He'll purr like the big kitty he is. Good luck!
I`m a Leo and I can say that I intend to be impatient. And it`s not only me. I also observe this from my friends who are Leo`s as well. Leo`s are also stubborn. Once they set their mind on something, you have to REALLY persuave them to change their opinion. We don`t also like to admit to our faults.
If he keeps on assuming things, you should just have a face to face talk to him. If he doesn`t listen, you should think of taking a break for a while.
Best of luck!
HELLO HELLO,MsCapricorn it aint gonna work he will give you too many HEADACHES ,i say NEXT
Oh some men and women just get mad over anything. Don't let that bother you and blow it off your shoulder. You probally got bigger things to worry about anyway.some things that he wouldn't even begin to understand so just be nice to him anyway. He can;t be mean to someone who is being good to him at the same time. God Bless You. Oh and if he can still be mean then it is time to let this person be gone out of your life. Thamks.
Leo men can be impatient and very JEALOUS. They also want all the attention (Leo woman are this way also). And then with some men no matter how many times you tell them u like them it's never enough. They just like their ego to be stroked continuously. I can say that maybe you need to be a little more tough with him and stop catering to his needs. After all he is a FIRE sign it wont hurt him at all. He'll probably like your aggressive nature change.
can i get some advice to get him to stop making many wrong assumptions??Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
skip the clown outfit..he wont like it.. whats your sign?
He wants devotion...dont expect to chat with others when he is talking with you...Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
such a shame that such a ******* duma** answer got chosen!!
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Speaking as an Ultra-Leo myself... You will never stop him making these assumptions...
He is right, you are wrong.. Whatever the situation (or at least, this is how he sees it)
If you take the situation where you were chatting to multiple people... This is your bad... You cannot be giving him your full attention, therefore.. You feel he is not worthy of any attention at all (He will think)
Similarly, if you take a long time to answer, he will assume that you are doing something that you consider more important - He will take this as a personal slieght.
Ultra-Leo males are hair-triggered and impulsive. They are also fiercely loyal, but get extremely upset if this loyalty is not mirrored in other people..
They have to be the most important, correct, trustworth, likeable, popular person in the room..
If you don't pray at the altar of the Ultra-Leo.. You'd better watch out..
Their Egos are fragile - And when they do shatter, they do so with a bang - Which can lead to depression problems when the realities of life come flooding home to them..
I have been with my Leo man for 5 years and I know exactly what your going through. What this guy is doing is trying to get all of your attention. He doesn't like the fact that you chat with other people. Even if you don't like another guy and you told him you like him. In his mind he comes first if you like him. And, he also thinks that if you like him so much there should be no need to chat with anybody else whether their males or females. Leo men can be insanely jealous!!!!!
If you really like this guy and you want something with him such as a relationship then I want you to know right now that he is going to demand all of your attention. If he doesn't get it he's going to throw a fit in some form or fashion so that he does get your attention. Just flatter him and tell him things about himself that sound really great. Even if they aren't to you just tell him anyway because a Leo man loves nothing more than to be told something good about himself. Just remember the two main important things. Give him a lot of attention, and boost his ego. (Even though it's already inflated) *lol*
I have my Leo man eating out of the palm of my hand. I do both of these things constantly with my man and I swear he tries to give me the world. Leo's are very generous and romantic so once you get on their good side and truly have their love then you have hit the jackpot. If your the type that's not into giving attention, etc..... then you should probably move on. Either way good luck!!! I'm a Sagittarius by the way.
P.S
Sorry for writing a book *lol*
Lowlevel pretty much hit the nail on the head with this one. Leos have extremely tender egos, but you'd never know because they are constantly putting themselves on a pedestal. They are the Kings of the Jungle, or at least in their own minds, they are. They don't like being told what to do or being out of control in a situation. This was certainly the case with my Leo ex. Also, they are a Fixed Sign, which accounts for the stubbornness. When they put their foots down, that's it. There's no way their gonna budge from their mind set. I'd say, be patient, give the lion a chance to cool off, and then go back, nice and sweetly. Stroke his ego and tell him how much you value the friendship. He'll purr like the big kitty he is. Good luck!
I`m a Leo and I can say that I intend to be impatient. And it`s not only me. I also observe this from my friends who are Leo`s as well. Leo`s are also stubborn. Once they set their mind on something, you have to REALLY persuave them to change their opinion. We don`t also like to admit to our faults.
If he keeps on assuming things, you should just have a face to face talk to him. If he doesn`t listen, you should think of taking a break for a while.
Best of luck!
HELLO HELLO,MsCapricorn it aint gonna work he will give you too many HEADACHES ,i say NEXT
Oh some men and women just get mad over anything. Don't let that bother you and blow it off your shoulder. You probally got bigger things to worry about anyway.some things that he wouldn't even begin to understand so just be nice to him anyway. He can;t be mean to someone who is being good to him at the same time. God Bless You. Oh and if he can still be mean then it is time to let this person be gone out of your life. Thamks.
Leo men can be impatient and very JEALOUS. They also want all the attention (Leo woman are this way also). And then with some men no matter how many times you tell them u like them it's never enough. They just like their ego to be stroked continuously. I can say that maybe you need to be a little more tough with him and stop catering to his needs. After all he is a FIRE sign it wont hurt him at all. He'll probably like your aggressive nature change.
Advice on how to deal with my ex-bf..please!?
my boyfriend of 2 yrs just broke up with me last week because he decided he didn't want to be in a serious relationship anymore- after a HUGE fight. Hours before the fight, he got his ring finger tattooed for me. We still live together, which sucks, but it's only for another month. The problem is that I want to get back together, but he won't give me another chance. He told me now that he loves me, but isn't in love with me, but then he took it back. So I told him i wouldn't ask again, and I've just been going out with friends because it's hard to be around him when I feel like he is making a bad decision. Since i've already talked to him once, I don't feel compelled to talk to him about it again, but when I leave he asks where i'm at, and when i'm home (and sleeping on the couch) he'll ask me if I want to watch movies with him %26amp; he text me asking about my summer classes and makes plans for us to cook out together. WHAT THE HELL? Why is he doing this?Advice on how to deal with my ex-bf..please!?
Well I am sorry that he is doing this to you but the weird thing is I just went thru the same thing. My boyfriend of 2 years deceided that I wasnt the one for him. We lived together which meant that we still had to stay together for 2 months before the lease was up. I stayed at my moms house for that two months and he stayed at the apartment. He would constantly tell me that he loved me and that he wanted to be with me and then a few days later he would stop talking to me and he was hanging out with his loser friends who were all single and hooked up with different girls. Then One day he told me that he brought a girl back to the apartment and slept with her in our bed!!! I know that sick bastard!. well anyway after I finally stoped talking to him and told him to stay out of my life forever he realised that he didnt want me out of his life. For some reason that time he decided to come back to me. After a few months we decided to get married and now we are having a baby together. This could be your ex thinking that he is ready to make that next step with you and getting scared so he just wants to see what else is out there. When he asks you were you are going tell him you are going somewhere amazing so he gets jelouse. But stand your grounds dont let him get to you (or should i say dont let him see that he is getting to you) I know how you feel! If you think that he is worth trying to get back then give him some space but if you think that you are ready to move on then say its none of your business and you need to get on with it.Advice on how to deal with my ex-bf..please!?
hes just going through something right now and he obviously dont want to end things yall had a fight you live together and have been together for a while so hes doin these things cause he still wants to be with you and you should let him if u want to be with him and talk to him about these things arguments are healthy they onloy make you stronger and you have to talk to resolve issues guys dont get their ring finger tattooed for just any girl so yall need to sit down and have a serious conversation and go from there
Well I am sorry that he is doing this to you but the weird thing is I just went thru the same thing. My boyfriend of 2 years deceided that I wasnt the one for him. We lived together which meant that we still had to stay together for 2 months before the lease was up. I stayed at my moms house for that two months and he stayed at the apartment. He would constantly tell me that he loved me and that he wanted to be with me and then a few days later he would stop talking to me and he was hanging out with his loser friends who were all single and hooked up with different girls. Then One day he told me that he brought a girl back to the apartment and slept with her in our bed!!! I know that sick bastard!. well anyway after I finally stoped talking to him and told him to stay out of my life forever he realised that he didnt want me out of his life. For some reason that time he decided to come back to me. After a few months we decided to get married and now we are having a baby together. This could be your ex thinking that he is ready to make that next step with you and getting scared so he just wants to see what else is out there. When he asks you were you are going tell him you are going somewhere amazing so he gets jelouse. But stand your grounds dont let him get to you (or should i say dont let him see that he is getting to you) I know how you feel! If you think that he is worth trying to get back then give him some space but if you think that you are ready to move on then say its none of your business and you need to get on with it.Advice on how to deal with my ex-bf..please!?
hes just going through something right now and he obviously dont want to end things yall had a fight you live together and have been together for a while so hes doin these things cause he still wants to be with you and you should let him if u want to be with him and talk to him about these things arguments are healthy they onloy make you stronger and you have to talk to resolve issues guys dont get their ring finger tattooed for just any girl so yall need to sit down and have a serious conversation and go from there
Advice on how to make sure I never cheat.?
I have never cheated on anyone before in my life. I have been with a wonderful girlfriend for the last two years, and I love her to death. When she and I first started dating, I had emailed a couple times with an ex-girlfriend, and it really hurt my girl. It was a different time in my life, and I'm not that man anymore (I'm only 19 now), but I want to be sure that I never do anything stupid like cheating or even just emailing like that ever again. I can't ever picture myself cheating, but I've read some stories and I know it can happen to anyone. Anybody have some horror stories or a few lines of wisdom that scare the wits out of me and stay in the back of my head for the rest of my life? I can only imagine how much cheating can hurt somebody, and I NEVER want to do that to anyone.Advice on how to make sure I never cheat.?
Stay away from temptation.
I was married for over 25 years and it took all I had in me on many occasions to stay faithful. I literally run out of my own bar once.
Keep her and your family as your number one priority.Advice on how to make sure I never cheat.?
Well I have been married for 5 years and I cheated on my husband three times he knows about two of them and It devasted him and we are trying to work though this and its hard my advice its not worth it by losing everything you love......
Just imagine what would happen when your girlfriend/wife found out you cheated on them and they told you that they just cheated on you just last night with that goofy guy at your job/school.
That usually works pretty good.
If you cheat you will lose her forever.
No, cheating doesn't just ';happen'; to anyone. It's something that you make a choice to do or not do, from actual physical contact, to staying in touch with old flames for whom you had strong feelings, to addressing problems that come up in your relationship with your partner when they come up instead of withdrawing and seeking comfort elsewhere. Just ask yourself before you do something you're not sure about whether you'd still be doing it if your partner was right there beside you, and act accordingly.
If you have to ask strangers to help you make sure you never cheat, then I'm not sure you've got much hope right now. People who never cheat would not have to ask such a question. If you're certain you don't want to cheat, then don't. It's that simple.
How old are you?
If you are still in your teens, this lady isn't likely the one you will end up with. She'll dump you or you will dump her..... No guy is for sure ready to be a dad until he's at least 30.
So, at least do yourself a favor..... don't have any kids until you are 30.
The cost is huge.... $250,000 to get one to age 18, and that is with nothing extra... just a full belly of cheap food, tv, plastic toys, a computer and some dope in hs.
Too many children before you are 30 means you'll have nothing to save and put into your IRA.
And lots of people make that mistake, and those poor gomers are the ones working at Costco and Walmart at 74.... for minimum wages.
It's the only job they can get, and it is work to eat and get meds, or choose one or the other.
I would like to tell you I was engaged to be married at 19 and did get married at the age of 20. 7 years later I started talking with another man, and even tho nothing actually happened...the guilt is eating me alive!! My anxiety has never been so bad and the depression is absolutely terrible!!! Don't do it to yourself or the one you love.
I can麓t believe this is a real question.
Cheating isn麓t about something you do, it is about the person you are.
A self respecting man or woman respects themeselves and don麓t do to other what they wouldn麓t want done to them.
Be a man and make the decision not to cheat, period!
Stay away from temptation.
I was married for over 25 years and it took all I had in me on many occasions to stay faithful. I literally run out of my own bar once.
Keep her and your family as your number one priority.Advice on how to make sure I never cheat.?
Well I have been married for 5 years and I cheated on my husband three times he knows about two of them and It devasted him and we are trying to work though this and its hard my advice its not worth it by losing everything you love......
Just imagine what would happen when your girlfriend/wife found out you cheated on them and they told you that they just cheated on you just last night with that goofy guy at your job/school.
That usually works pretty good.
If you cheat you will lose her forever.
No, cheating doesn't just ';happen'; to anyone. It's something that you make a choice to do or not do, from actual physical contact, to staying in touch with old flames for whom you had strong feelings, to addressing problems that come up in your relationship with your partner when they come up instead of withdrawing and seeking comfort elsewhere. Just ask yourself before you do something you're not sure about whether you'd still be doing it if your partner was right there beside you, and act accordingly.
If you have to ask strangers to help you make sure you never cheat, then I'm not sure you've got much hope right now. People who never cheat would not have to ask such a question. If you're certain you don't want to cheat, then don't. It's that simple.
How old are you?
If you are still in your teens, this lady isn't likely the one you will end up with. She'll dump you or you will dump her..... No guy is for sure ready to be a dad until he's at least 30.
So, at least do yourself a favor..... don't have any kids until you are 30.
The cost is huge.... $250,000 to get one to age 18, and that is with nothing extra... just a full belly of cheap food, tv, plastic toys, a computer and some dope in hs.
Too many children before you are 30 means you'll have nothing to save and put into your IRA.
And lots of people make that mistake, and those poor gomers are the ones working at Costco and Walmart at 74.... for minimum wages.
It's the only job they can get, and it is work to eat and get meds, or choose one or the other.
I would like to tell you I was engaged to be married at 19 and did get married at the age of 20. 7 years later I started talking with another man, and even tho nothing actually happened...the guilt is eating me alive!! My anxiety has never been so bad and the depression is absolutely terrible!!! Don't do it to yourself or the one you love.
I can麓t believe this is a real question.
Cheating isn麓t about something you do, it is about the person you are.
A self respecting man or woman respects themeselves and don麓t do to other what they wouldn麓t want done to them.
Be a man and make the decision not to cheat, period!
Advice on how to...10pts to best answer?
I am a female, 5'5'', 135 lbs, 21 years old.
I want to loose 10 lbs by the end of October...Any suggestions? I cannot limit my sugar or carb in take....and I am not a big protein person....
For exercise, I have weak ankles so I am unable to run to extent multiple times a week...
Anyone have diet tips (I don't drink alcohol, eat deep fried food, or drink soda already...) or any exersise tips?
I want to loose this weight healthily.Advice on how to...10pts to best answer?
You can increase your metabolismAdvice on how to...10pts to best answer?
lift wights and dumbells???????????
Try this, its a gud way to lose 3-5kgs in 7 days. It鈥檚 a start, the rest is upto you after this.
day 1 - only fruits (avoid bananas %26amp; milk)
day 2 - only veggies (avoid any kinda oil or fat)
day 3 - mix of fruit %26amp; veggies (avoid any kinda oil or fat or bananas %26amp; milk)
day 4 - only bananas %26amp; milk nothing else
day 5 - u feast on a cup of rice %26amp; six tomatoes %26amp; 12 glasses of water
day 6 - only veggies %26amp; 1cup of rice
day 7 - 1 cup rice, fruit juice and the vegetables you care to consume. Tomorrow morning you will be 3-5 Kgs lighter than 1 week ago.
Things to remember %26amp; (strictly) follow during the seven day program:
鈥o smoking or drinking during this period
鈥rink a lot of water during the diet period (minimum of 8 to 10 glasses per day)
鈥trictly no oily food or in-between junk food during the diet period
鈥o tea or coffee during these 7days with milk or sugar, if required u can have a cup a day of black tea or coffee
鈥o sweet food during the diet period
鈥ny cooking done needs to have less salt, less oil but can have condiments to make the food taste better
鈥?Do not continue this diet after seven days. This can be done only once in 3months.
鈥rust in your diet, it will show you the difference
I want to loose 10 lbs by the end of October...Any suggestions? I cannot limit my sugar or carb in take....and I am not a big protein person....
For exercise, I have weak ankles so I am unable to run to extent multiple times a week...
Anyone have diet tips (I don't drink alcohol, eat deep fried food, or drink soda already...) or any exersise tips?
I want to loose this weight healthily.Advice on how to...10pts to best answer?
You can increase your metabolismAdvice on how to...10pts to best answer?
lift wights and dumbells???????????
Try this, its a gud way to lose 3-5kgs in 7 days. It鈥檚 a start, the rest is upto you after this.
day 1 - only fruits (avoid bananas %26amp; milk)
day 2 - only veggies (avoid any kinda oil or fat)
day 3 - mix of fruit %26amp; veggies (avoid any kinda oil or fat or bananas %26amp; milk)
day 4 - only bananas %26amp; milk nothing else
day 5 - u feast on a cup of rice %26amp; six tomatoes %26amp; 12 glasses of water
day 6 - only veggies %26amp; 1cup of rice
day 7 - 1 cup rice, fruit juice and the vegetables you care to consume. Tomorrow morning you will be 3-5 Kgs lighter than 1 week ago.
Things to remember %26amp; (strictly) follow during the seven day program:
鈥o smoking or drinking during this period
鈥rink a lot of water during the diet period (minimum of 8 to 10 glasses per day)
鈥trictly no oily food or in-between junk food during the diet period
鈥o tea or coffee during these 7days with milk or sugar, if required u can have a cup a day of black tea or coffee
鈥o sweet food during the diet period
鈥ny cooking done needs to have less salt, less oil but can have condiments to make the food taste better
鈥?Do not continue this diet after seven days. This can be done only once in 3months.
鈥rust in your diet, it will show you the difference
Do you have any advice on how to escape from Toon Town?
take the freeway that leads to %26amp; from it. or an easier sulotion, spill some of that ';acid'; junk somewhere, %26amp; go through the rift you created.Do you have any advice on how to escape from Toon Town?
dip yourself.........Do you have any advice on how to escape from Toon Town?
Put the kids to bed if its late,if early enough, take them for a walk.
I dont even know how to get in!!!
find roger rabbit, he knows.
Hire a hitman to rub your computer out!!
That filthy tramp has been going around behind your back with that scumbag Walt Disney!?!
Make sure you get a good insurance policy first though!
You can't take that sitting down, man!
walk dont run.
burn the page
break your computer,block the site, stop smoking crack (cause only crack addics will play a bull shltty game like that)
BURN IN HELL DISNEY!!!
You don't need to escape - give it a few hours and the LSD will wear off on its own.
Rawlyn.
turpentine LOTS of it.
Change the channel
dip yourself.........Do you have any advice on how to escape from Toon Town?
Put the kids to bed if its late,if early enough, take them for a walk.
I dont even know how to get in!!!
find roger rabbit, he knows.
Hire a hitman to rub your computer out!!
That filthy tramp has been going around behind your back with that scumbag Walt Disney!?!
Make sure you get a good insurance policy first though!
You can't take that sitting down, man!
walk dont run.
burn the page
break your computer,block the site, stop smoking crack (cause only crack addics will play a bull shltty game like that)
BURN IN HELL DISNEY!!!
You don't need to escape - give it a few hours and the LSD will wear off on its own.
Rawlyn.
turpentine LOTS of it.
Change the channel
Im looking for my nieces biological dad, need advice on how to do that????
ask some one possible knows,the best way is toget help from media angents.they helped many lost togethermask making
Girls...have you any advice on how to cope with stomach cramps?!?
ibuprofen and drink plenty of water. takes about 30 minutes, you may need to take 600mgs.Girls...have you any advice on how to cope with stomach cramps?!?
Whiskey is brilliant for all cramps. You only need a sip. Honest it works wonders.Girls...have you any advice on how to cope with stomach cramps?!?
haet and painkillers followed by your bfriend bringing u breakfast in bed
have plenty of love sessions
I have severe cramps, and only 3 Nurofen (ibuprofen 200mg each tablet) will get rid of it - mostly, but I do use an oil blend I made myself. Its 5 drops each of Bergamot, Lemongrass and Lavender 100% essential oils in a 10ml base of grapeseed oil. rub the mixture on the stomach and back (if you get back pain). It doesn't get rid of it completely, but it does ease it to a dull ache. Also, that 4Head is very good for the same purpose!
Also, Sainsbury's do Ibuprofen in 400mg tablets, they are big, and hard to swallow, but are great for knocking you out!
Also, I find that excercise simply makes mine much worse, so that is down to the individual.
Oh, and I just read the comment about a goof fart, and you know what? Having a good fart actually relieves some of the pressure felt in the lower abdomen!
in general ive heard that bananas are really good to get rid of cramps. i usually just take asprin if i get crams and they go away.
Get a thick leather belt to bite down on
I know a lot of people say use a hot water bottle but i find that a cold damp cloth on my stomach helps, plus a little lavender oil..
If you are in great pain seek advice from you doctor or nurse...
I HATE CRAMPS! LIE DOWN UNTIL THE MEDS KICK IN!
I FOUND ALIEVE WORKS BEST
i use beachem powders,the normal one, they work like a treat for alot of things
I suffer really badly from cramps and what i do is get some munchies, a dvd and lie in bed with my hot water bottle. Relieves so much pain i think.
you can get these little square patch things that you stick 2 ur stomach and they up with the help of you body heat i find they help i think little lets make them you get them in most chemists or shops like sainsburys or tescos and they are realli thin so you can wear them under ur clothes and you cant even notice! good luck!or going 2 bed 4 a wee sleep sometimes helps if you are able 2!
Heating pad
Painkillers is the only way. exercise relieves it but just take the painkillers!
exercise and lots of good fresh healthy food its hard but since ive started this 6 months ago i dont get as many cramps as i used to and when i do they arent as bad.
have sex.
Sounds really mad but does work. Lie on your back with your feet up against the wall for 20 mins
eat chocolate, or just keep rubbing it, drink lots of fluids
Use Jasmine essential oil (5 drops in 5 millilitre of oil or cream) apply to your abdomen if you are premenstrual. Lavender oil or rose can also be use for cramps in the same way. If you are pregnant use orange or mandarin oil 1 drop in 1 teaspoon of cream.
Hot water bottle.
ginger is helpful for gastric complaints
the best solution is to think about sumthing else...distract urself as much as posible.just pop a combiflam,asprin,or a maftal.eat a little chocolate..it works wonders! and yeah i tried a hot bath..it made me feel heavenly!
A good fart usually does the trick
i heard bananas help
Ibuprofen. can't beat it.
Hot water bottle and painkillers
Go have a hot bath then apply a hot water bottle
Ladies, to cope with stomach cramps, drink some Lemon Zinger Tea. A nice, hot, soothing cup of Lemon Zinger Tea with wonderful and excellent for stomach cramps.
Try menstral pain killer OTC. IF not, drink alcohol.
I suffer from serious cramps only if I didn't workout before that period. So workout and break a sweat. Try this, but everyone's body should be slightly different...
When I do have cramps, I drink 1-2 glasses of red wine because alcohol can make the blood more watery and runny to reduce cramping.
do exercise and take pain killers to take your mind off the pain, just try and bear with it, walking helps a bit
Whiskey is brilliant for all cramps. You only need a sip. Honest it works wonders.Girls...have you any advice on how to cope with stomach cramps?!?
haet and painkillers followed by your bfriend bringing u breakfast in bed
have plenty of love sessions
I have severe cramps, and only 3 Nurofen (ibuprofen 200mg each tablet) will get rid of it - mostly, but I do use an oil blend I made myself. Its 5 drops each of Bergamot, Lemongrass and Lavender 100% essential oils in a 10ml base of grapeseed oil. rub the mixture on the stomach and back (if you get back pain). It doesn't get rid of it completely, but it does ease it to a dull ache. Also, that 4Head is very good for the same purpose!
Also, Sainsbury's do Ibuprofen in 400mg tablets, they are big, and hard to swallow, but are great for knocking you out!
Also, I find that excercise simply makes mine much worse, so that is down to the individual.
Oh, and I just read the comment about a goof fart, and you know what? Having a good fart actually relieves some of the pressure felt in the lower abdomen!
in general ive heard that bananas are really good to get rid of cramps. i usually just take asprin if i get crams and they go away.
Get a thick leather belt to bite down on
I know a lot of people say use a hot water bottle but i find that a cold damp cloth on my stomach helps, plus a little lavender oil..
If you are in great pain seek advice from you doctor or nurse...
I HATE CRAMPS! LIE DOWN UNTIL THE MEDS KICK IN!
I FOUND ALIEVE WORKS BEST
i use beachem powders,the normal one, they work like a treat for alot of things
I suffer really badly from cramps and what i do is get some munchies, a dvd and lie in bed with my hot water bottle. Relieves so much pain i think.
you can get these little square patch things that you stick 2 ur stomach and they up with the help of you body heat i find they help i think little lets make them you get them in most chemists or shops like sainsburys or tescos and they are realli thin so you can wear them under ur clothes and you cant even notice! good luck!or going 2 bed 4 a wee sleep sometimes helps if you are able 2!
Heating pad
Painkillers is the only way. exercise relieves it but just take the painkillers!
exercise and lots of good fresh healthy food its hard but since ive started this 6 months ago i dont get as many cramps as i used to and when i do they arent as bad.
have sex.
Sounds really mad but does work. Lie on your back with your feet up against the wall for 20 mins
eat chocolate, or just keep rubbing it, drink lots of fluids
Use Jasmine essential oil (5 drops in 5 millilitre of oil or cream) apply to your abdomen if you are premenstrual. Lavender oil or rose can also be use for cramps in the same way. If you are pregnant use orange or mandarin oil 1 drop in 1 teaspoon of cream.
Hot water bottle.
ginger is helpful for gastric complaints
the best solution is to think about sumthing else...distract urself as much as posible.just pop a combiflam,asprin,or a maftal.eat a little chocolate..it works wonders! and yeah i tried a hot bath..it made me feel heavenly!
A good fart usually does the trick
i heard bananas help
Ibuprofen. can't beat it.
Hot water bottle and painkillers
Go have a hot bath then apply a hot water bottle
Ladies, to cope with stomach cramps, drink some Lemon Zinger Tea. A nice, hot, soothing cup of Lemon Zinger Tea with wonderful and excellent for stomach cramps.
Try menstral pain killer OTC. IF not, drink alcohol.
I suffer from serious cramps only if I didn't workout before that period. So workout and break a sweat. Try this, but everyone's body should be slightly different...
When I do have cramps, I drink 1-2 glasses of red wine because alcohol can make the blood more watery and runny to reduce cramping.
do exercise and take pain killers to take your mind off the pain, just try and bear with it, walking helps a bit
Can I get some advice on how to get a girlfriend?
well ummm... (I am not good with these things) well when you really think you like her or you found the girl you like, get to know her, what she likes what she doesn't like. and just be her friend and when the time feels right ask her. just be sure that she likes you before asking.....I hope that I helped...Can I get some advice on how to get a girlfriend?
Just be yourself.Can I get some advice on how to get a girlfriend?
be yourslef and treat her the same way you would if you were alone and when you are with friends
Do not talk to the rack.
Make eye contact.
Don't stare.
Use real words.
Don't droll.
And think before you talk.
go emo.
girls love it
sensitivity and wicked awesome hair
perfection in a person
Just be honest with her and just be yourself. Also, remember only drunks and idiots use pickup lines.
be yourself. girls dont like guys who are fakers with no personality. then tell her your feelings for her because girls always are thinking of what a guy is thinking. be honest and straight up. then ask her out if you have a feeling or know she likes you back too.
How about asking a girl out ? That is usually the best way ya know and don't freak out if they say no so what at least one will say yes.
Geting a girlfriend is not hard. The hardest thing is having a relationship with a girlfriend. Think about it before you open the pandora's box. In the mean time, date around. They're more fun that way. Understand them, interview them, make them feel like a celebrity, or special (only if they're all). Make sure doing those things must also provide with moderate entertainments because women are multi taskers. They're like to watch tv, listen to a radeo, talk on the phone, and do homework at the same time. if you keep all there sense occupied while you understand them, interview them, make them a celebrity in an entertainment background. you may have it. based on experience you also take up with a sense of light humor because awkard moments are great thing to change the subject. girlfriends are like cats. hope that helps
Get yourself in close ;dancing , a conversation for instance.Then reach out and TOUCH them ,or stroke their arm,if they ask why just tell em you like them and you really felt you just had to touch ,then take it from there,depending on the response.If you're genuine its definately a winning move.
yeah dont look and they will be their when the time is right sometimes one or two and sometimes in flocks
Just be yourself.Can I get some advice on how to get a girlfriend?
be yourslef and treat her the same way you would if you were alone and when you are with friends
Do not talk to the rack.
Make eye contact.
Don't stare.
Use real words.
Don't droll.
And think before you talk.
go emo.
girls love it
sensitivity and wicked awesome hair
perfection in a person
Just be honest with her and just be yourself. Also, remember only drunks and idiots use pickup lines.
be yourself. girls dont like guys who are fakers with no personality. then tell her your feelings for her because girls always are thinking of what a guy is thinking. be honest and straight up. then ask her out if you have a feeling or know she likes you back too.
How about asking a girl out ? That is usually the best way ya know and don't freak out if they say no so what at least one will say yes.
Geting a girlfriend is not hard. The hardest thing is having a relationship with a girlfriend. Think about it before you open the pandora's box. In the mean time, date around. They're more fun that way. Understand them, interview them, make them feel like a celebrity, or special (only if they're all). Make sure doing those things must also provide with moderate entertainments because women are multi taskers. They're like to watch tv, listen to a radeo, talk on the phone, and do homework at the same time. if you keep all there sense occupied while you understand them, interview them, make them a celebrity in an entertainment background. you may have it. based on experience you also take up with a sense of light humor because awkard moments are great thing to change the subject. girlfriends are like cats. hope that helps
Get yourself in close ;dancing , a conversation for instance.Then reach out and TOUCH them ,or stroke their arm,if they ask why just tell em you like them and you really felt you just had to touch ,then take it from there,depending on the response.If you're genuine its definately a winning move.
yeah dont look and they will be their when the time is right sometimes one or two and sometimes in flocks
I need some solid advice on how to remove http://iesafetypage.com.?
I would highly appreciate your help in removing http://iesafetypage.com homepage. I have tried system restore but my Win XP SP2 says 'unable to restore'. Please help.I need some solid advice on how to remove http://iesafetypage.com.?
Your computer is infected with a trojan called Zlob. Zlob hijacks your homepage to iesafetypage.com and generates warning messages to try and get you to buy fake programs such as SpyDawn, SpyHeal, Antivermins and others. Of course it is important to get rid of iesafetypage.com, but its just as important to also remove the Zlob Trojan that implanted it there. In my experience, a program called SpyNoMore is your best bet in removing the Zlob trojan. By removing this trojan, you will also get rid of iesafetypage.com. Another symptom of Zlob Trojan is that it generates fake warning messages like:
System Alert
Critical System Error
System Performance monitor warning
Security Alert: NetWorm-i.Virus@fp
Security Warning: SpyBot@MXt trojan
W32.Myzor.FK@yf
http://www.spynomore.com/iesafetypage-co鈥?/a>
http://www.spynomore.com/trojan-zlob.htmI need some solid advice on how to remove http://iesafetypage.com.?
Go to e(internet) option rite click chose property and chose about:blank on it..
your infected with a trojan.
a nasty one too
update your antivirus software or get a free antivirus software like antivir: http://www.free-av.com/
also get spybot search and destory here: http://www.download.com/3000-8022-101221鈥?/a>
after you have installed these. restart your computer in safe mode.
to get to safe mode. when it starts to turn back on tap the f8 key. then select safe mode.
now run a scan with your antivirus then spybot.
Your computer is infected with a trojan called Zlob. Zlob hijacks your homepage to iesafetypage.com and generates warning messages to try and get you to buy fake programs such as SpyDawn, SpyHeal, Antivermins and others. Of course it is important to get rid of iesafetypage.com, but its just as important to also remove the Zlob Trojan that implanted it there. In my experience, a program called SpyNoMore is your best bet in removing the Zlob trojan. By removing this trojan, you will also get rid of iesafetypage.com. Another symptom of Zlob Trojan is that it generates fake warning messages like:
System Alert
Critical System Error
System Performance monitor warning
Security Alert: NetWorm-i.Virus@fp
Security Warning: SpyBot@MXt trojan
W32.Myzor.FK@yf
http://www.spynomore.com/iesafetypage-co鈥?/a>
http://www.spynomore.com/trojan-zlob.htmI need some solid advice on how to remove http://iesafetypage.com.?
Go to e(internet) option rite click chose property and chose about:blank on it..
your infected with a trojan.
a nasty one too
update your antivirus software or get a free antivirus software like antivir: http://www.free-av.com/
also get spybot search and destory here: http://www.download.com/3000-8022-101221鈥?/a>
after you have installed these. restart your computer in safe mode.
to get to safe mode. when it starts to turn back on tap the f8 key. then select safe mode.
now run a scan with your antivirus then spybot.
I am going to get a divorce. Any advice on how to fill out papers?
get a lawyerI am going to get a divorce. Any advice on how to fill out papers?
Get a lawyer.I am going to get a divorce. Any advice on how to fill out papers?
I suggest filling out the papers with a pencil - then you can erase stuff if you make a mistake. LOL
Seriously, get a lawyer or go to the library and download information regarding divorce paperwork
Good luck.
If you go to the court hose or download them they should have the information you need to fill them out, if you have children please pay close attention to visitation and child support and no matter what pay attention to the spousal support too. Good Luck
Get a good lawyer.End all contact with your ''ex''.He will try everything in the book to screw you or at least his lawyer will.Never and I mean NEVER sign anything without your lawyer approving it or discussing it with you.If you have kids get child support,college tuition in the future,help with day care all of in writing.If it isn't in the decree he doesn't have to pay.Remember you aren't going to be married anymore so he expect him not to play fair.I say this as a guy who cleaned house on my ''ex'' because she was in too much of a hurry and signed anything.
Once again, go to the law library, and you will find all of the answers to your questions there. Every courthouse in the country has one.
Get a lawyer.I am going to get a divorce. Any advice on how to fill out papers?
I suggest filling out the papers with a pencil - then you can erase stuff if you make a mistake. LOL
Seriously, get a lawyer or go to the library and download information regarding divorce paperwork
Good luck.
If you go to the court hose or download them they should have the information you need to fill them out, if you have children please pay close attention to visitation and child support and no matter what pay attention to the spousal support too. Good Luck
Get a good lawyer.End all contact with your ''ex''.He will try everything in the book to screw you or at least his lawyer will.Never and I mean NEVER sign anything without your lawyer approving it or discussing it with you.If you have kids get child support,college tuition in the future,help with day care all of in writing.If it isn't in the decree he doesn't have to pay.Remember you aren't going to be married anymore so he expect him not to play fair.I say this as a guy who cleaned house on my ''ex'' because she was in too much of a hurry and signed anything.
Once again, go to the law library, and you will find all of the answers to your questions there. Every courthouse in the country has one.
Help! Looking Desperately For Advice On How To Make This Work!!?
I have been seeing a wonderful guy for the last 6 months. We are deeply, madly in love. But . . .
First, we live 100 miles apart. Aside from a couple of vacations, we see each other only on the weekends. So far, it's OK, but . . .
I have had a very shaky job history (not by my choosing!), just started a new job, and need to stay put. He is working, going to school and lives at home with his parents.
Our original plan was he'd get his associate's degree by May, and then transfer down here and we'd move in together.
But now I find out that he wants to go for his Bachelor's degree, (an extra 2 years of school). He could look at schools down here, but it'd be a year before he'd qualify for in-state tuition.
He's scared that if it doesn't work out, he'll be in a strange city with little $$, which I totally understand. I also have to find a new place by April - we need to make some decisions soon. I don't want to lose him, but I think we need a suitable solution %26amp; we can't find 1Help! Looking Desperately For Advice On How To Make This Work!!?
You are rushing and it sounds like you are all that togther to begin with (shaky job history).
Look if this man is right for you he will be right for you today, tomorrow and next month, not just today.
You need to each focus on making yourself the best person you can be and then you can work on relationships, not before.
You are NOT READY for this move and neither is he. Stay put, stay working, have him stay put and stay in school. Re-think everything in a year!Help! Looking Desperately For Advice On How To Make This Work!!?
Did he ever consider going into his field and waiting to go for the BA later? Many Employers will help with tuition after a certain time period especially if it is a degree that will help the company.
Please take no offense to what I'm about to say. A little tough love if you will. I'm thinking that since you need to be out by April, and your job(s) have been unstable .... you should just move closer to him. Maybe find an apartment together and you get a job in his area. I'm feeling he is very serious about his education. I'm not for sure how you stand on academics, but you both will benefit if he gets a Bachelor's Degree. If you guys have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months are still madly in love ... I'd say you wil get through this as well. It sounds like the ball is in your court. Take the chance and move to where he is. I'm sure you can find a good paying job. Good luck to ya !
If your relation ship is working now than why change it. If your really madly in love than you should be able to wait the 2 years. Have you thought of looking for work where he lives? If you really want to fix this you can.
not sure how young you both are, but school is very important. a bachelor degree will add $10-15000 more to your annual income alone, as it will open the doors to much better jobs.
100 miles is not that far, as long as one of you has a car.. you can see each other every weekend..
since you seem to be changing jobs all the time, try to look for work where he is going to school. if he's gonna be there 2 years at least, then it would make more sense for you to look for work there..
but meanwhile, long distance isn't a problem.. long distance relationships are only a problem if there is no feasible solution for you to be together at some point..
my long distance relationships failed, but that was becuase the distance was 500 miles for one and 1100 for the others.. so rarely got to see them..
First, we live 100 miles apart. Aside from a couple of vacations, we see each other only on the weekends. So far, it's OK, but . . .
I have had a very shaky job history (not by my choosing!), just started a new job, and need to stay put. He is working, going to school and lives at home with his parents.
Our original plan was he'd get his associate's degree by May, and then transfer down here and we'd move in together.
But now I find out that he wants to go for his Bachelor's degree, (an extra 2 years of school). He could look at schools down here, but it'd be a year before he'd qualify for in-state tuition.
He's scared that if it doesn't work out, he'll be in a strange city with little $$, which I totally understand. I also have to find a new place by April - we need to make some decisions soon. I don't want to lose him, but I think we need a suitable solution %26amp; we can't find 1Help! Looking Desperately For Advice On How To Make This Work!!?
You are rushing and it sounds like you are all that togther to begin with (shaky job history).
Look if this man is right for you he will be right for you today, tomorrow and next month, not just today.
You need to each focus on making yourself the best person you can be and then you can work on relationships, not before.
You are NOT READY for this move and neither is he. Stay put, stay working, have him stay put and stay in school. Re-think everything in a year!Help! Looking Desperately For Advice On How To Make This Work!!?
Did he ever consider going into his field and waiting to go for the BA later? Many Employers will help with tuition after a certain time period especially if it is a degree that will help the company.
Please take no offense to what I'm about to say. A little tough love if you will. I'm thinking that since you need to be out by April, and your job(s) have been unstable .... you should just move closer to him. Maybe find an apartment together and you get a job in his area. I'm feeling he is very serious about his education. I'm not for sure how you stand on academics, but you both will benefit if he gets a Bachelor's Degree. If you guys have been in a long distance relationship for 6 months are still madly in love ... I'd say you wil get through this as well. It sounds like the ball is in your court. Take the chance and move to where he is. I'm sure you can find a good paying job. Good luck to ya !
If your relation ship is working now than why change it. If your really madly in love than you should be able to wait the 2 years. Have you thought of looking for work where he lives? If you really want to fix this you can.
not sure how young you both are, but school is very important. a bachelor degree will add $10-15000 more to your annual income alone, as it will open the doors to much better jobs.
100 miles is not that far, as long as one of you has a car.. you can see each other every weekend..
since you seem to be changing jobs all the time, try to look for work where he is going to school. if he's gonna be there 2 years at least, then it would make more sense for you to look for work there..
but meanwhile, long distance isn't a problem.. long distance relationships are only a problem if there is no feasible solution for you to be together at some point..
my long distance relationships failed, but that was becuase the distance was 500 miles for one and 1100 for the others.. so rarely got to see them..
I LIKE THIS BOY FRANCO...AND I NEED ADVICE TO HOW I COULD TO GET WITH HIM...MY SISTERS QUESTION!?
HES A 7th GRADER AND SHES A 6th GRADERI LIKE THIS BOY FRANCO...AND I NEED ADVICE TO HOW I COULD TO GET WITH HIM...MY SISTERS QUESTION!?
whether it's your sister's question or not, it's not going to make any difference.
just do what everyone else does. cinema/restaurant/walk in the park/sleepover (lol)
don't text, it's not personal. write a note/love letter saying you like him, approach him. MAKE MOVESmask making
whether it's your sister's question or not, it's not going to make any difference.
just do what everyone else does. cinema/restaurant/walk in the park/sleepover (lol)
don't text, it's not personal. write a note/love letter saying you like him, approach him. MAKE MOVES
I need some serious advice on how to seduce my bf of 6yrs.?
we haven't been intimate for a good 2mos. when we kiss each other ggod-bye or hello, it's always a peck on the lips-nothing sexy at all. obviously, we are in a rut.
I would love it (especially from you guys) how to totally seduce him in a way he never thought possible.I need some serious advice on how to seduce my bf of 6yrs.?
Why don't you ask him on a date, just like when you first started going out. It can be at a show, or just a nice dinner at home, and you can light candles and wear underwear he's never seen before. Make the time for sex and then make sure it's understood that sex is on the schedule for the date- you don't have to be pushy, some touching and the new undies will make the message loud and clear. Sometimes your ';rut'; happens in a relationship when both are really busy and you just don't make the time for the intimate side. However, if you do all this and he still is too tired or too stressed, then it's a real problem and you need to talk about it with him. He may have found another girl to satisfy him sexually, or he may be embarrassed or self-conscious about something, or you two may not be into each other any more. It happens. Good luck!I need some serious advice on how to seduce my bf of 6yrs.?
it is over-give up
pick a night when he is not doing nothing and wait till he is sleeping and go in give him a ******** he will give you more pleasure back from you doing that to him
No one has one idea? Geesh.
Secret notes, emails from an 'unknow address', pigtails and a schoolgirl uniform.
Wait until he is asleep and go down on him.Give him the best blow j** he has ever had.He will love you in so many new ways after that.All couples get in to A rut sometimes.But give it to him good and he will give it back just as good.
why ask such a stupid ? like that. if you don't know how then you need to just close your legs and forget the whole thing.
Light candles and put them in a line leading to the bedroom. Lace this line of candles with rose pedals. Light several candles and rose petals all over the bedroom. When he gets home, be waiting on the bed in a new teddie. Invite him in to play. Or you could give him a greeting card of some sort with a motel room key and directions to the motel and the room number. Move the candle and rose petals to the motel. What ever it takes to get his attention. Listen, After 6 yrs.? You need to either fix it or forget it.
Let him seduce you. If he doesn't then he must not be interested. Find someone else.
whats with u guy? he needs seduction after six yrs???????????? maybe you shud sex up ur wardwrobe a bit.Try n look beautiful when he is around with out over doing it? men like attention too. GIve him some of it.If nothing works talk it out.Chances are that he'll be thrilled
the easiest thing is to lay down on the bed..hug him tightly...and kiss !.. the rest follows
try to seduce him.howveer if that don't work, your relation has become boring and monotone, and you will need to get profesional help or end the relation before it get worse.
Seduce him?! Sheesh, just tell him you want to want to ';move your relationship to the next level';.
I would love it (especially from you guys) how to totally seduce him in a way he never thought possible.I need some serious advice on how to seduce my bf of 6yrs.?
Why don't you ask him on a date, just like when you first started going out. It can be at a show, or just a nice dinner at home, and you can light candles and wear underwear he's never seen before. Make the time for sex and then make sure it's understood that sex is on the schedule for the date- you don't have to be pushy, some touching and the new undies will make the message loud and clear. Sometimes your ';rut'; happens in a relationship when both are really busy and you just don't make the time for the intimate side. However, if you do all this and he still is too tired or too stressed, then it's a real problem and you need to talk about it with him. He may have found another girl to satisfy him sexually, or he may be embarrassed or self-conscious about something, or you two may not be into each other any more. It happens. Good luck!I need some serious advice on how to seduce my bf of 6yrs.?
it is over-give up
pick a night when he is not doing nothing and wait till he is sleeping and go in give him a ******** he will give you more pleasure back from you doing that to him
No one has one idea? Geesh.
Secret notes, emails from an 'unknow address', pigtails and a schoolgirl uniform.
Wait until he is asleep and go down on him.Give him the best blow j** he has ever had.He will love you in so many new ways after that.All couples get in to A rut sometimes.But give it to him good and he will give it back just as good.
why ask such a stupid ? like that. if you don't know how then you need to just close your legs and forget the whole thing.
Light candles and put them in a line leading to the bedroom. Lace this line of candles with rose pedals. Light several candles and rose petals all over the bedroom. When he gets home, be waiting on the bed in a new teddie. Invite him in to play. Or you could give him a greeting card of some sort with a motel room key and directions to the motel and the room number. Move the candle and rose petals to the motel. What ever it takes to get his attention. Listen, After 6 yrs.? You need to either fix it or forget it.
Let him seduce you. If he doesn't then he must not be interested. Find someone else.
whats with u guy? he needs seduction after six yrs???????????? maybe you shud sex up ur wardwrobe a bit.Try n look beautiful when he is around with out over doing it? men like attention too. GIve him some of it.If nothing works talk it out.Chances are that he'll be thrilled
the easiest thing is to lay down on the bed..hug him tightly...and kiss !.. the rest follows
try to seduce him.howveer if that don't work, your relation has become boring and monotone, and you will need to get profesional help or end the relation before it get worse.
Seduce him?! Sheesh, just tell him you want to want to ';move your relationship to the next level';.
Sisters & brothers in Islam can I get some advice on how to teach my sister and brother about Islam?
Assalaamualaykum. As some of you know from my last few questions I have a 7 year old sister and 5 year old brother who mean the world to me. I am the only Muslim in my family and I would like to teach my sister and brother about Islam and help my 7 year old sister learn to pray so she doesn't get bad credit from ALLAH(SWT). I am considering buying my sister a kid's abaya and hijab and my brother a thobe as well as 2 prayer rugs so that they might learn how to pray correctly. The problem is I know my mother and stepdad won't teach them anything about Islam and I am afraid that my sister will get bad credit for not learning how to pray. Even though they don't live with me I feel like it is my duty as their older sister and the only Muslim in the family to lead them on the straight path so that they will aim their lives for Jinnah and live soleley for ALLAH(SWT). I already plan on trying to teach them how to pray when my husband and I visit them this Thanksgiving but would the badSisters %26amp; brothers in Islam can I get some advice on how to teach my sister and brother about Islam?
Walaikum Salam.
The best thing you can do is get them involved with other Muslim children. Talk to them in terms of what they would understand. Teach them how much love Islam has and how much they will love it. Instead of buying them things which miht be a little overwhelming at first, go slow. By your sister some cute hijabs. Take her with you, get her involved in picking her own hijab. Give her nice children books that talk about the sahaba's, about Prophets (pbuh) wives. For your brother do the same. Get them interested. Show them islamic cartoons and stuff. Pray in front of them and say everything out loud.
I know your parents might not agree with you doing all of this in front of them. Maybe you can invite them over to your place every weekend. Or if they are far then you might want to talk to your parents and consult with them. After all, you are doing your job. What your siblings decide later, is going to be their choice.
May Allah help you in your good deed. AmeenSisters %26amp; brothers in Islam can I get some advice on how to teach my sister and brother about Islam?
http://www.al-islam.org/ (the best Islamic Encyclopedia).
u make islam sound scary
pleeaaasssee spare me the agony!
make sure they learn to connect the red wire to the button
I'm not Muslim, but there are some really cool DVDs and coloring books, etc. at various Islamic bookstores. I recall to mind SoundVision's wonderful DVDs aimed at explaining Islam to the little ones, even prayers. A guy I used to talk to at a local Islamic bookstore (in PA) always recommended the book on prayer aimed at kids to make Salat simpler to learn.
Hope that helps some.
edit/addition: Goddess BLESS am I the only person sans hate for someone just because they're Muslim?! When will you people (haters) realize that hate only begets hate. Stop the madness already and leave people alone if you disagree. This woman isn't causing any direct harm/suffering I could imagine.
_()_
I'm not a Muslim but I understand your situation. Instead of going so far as to buy them things, try telling them simple Arabic kid's tales. They don't even have to be Islamic. First get them interested in Islamic culture, so they'll WANT to learn more. Then as you find more tales you can start teaching them about Islam using the stories. Like if in one story there is a guy who prays, you could ask your sister or brother why he prays like that, and if they would like to learn to pray to Allah like in Islam...things like that.
It is probably not a good idea to go against your parents' wishes though (not saying you are, you didn't mention them much). But if you are, it would be simply confusing to the kids to be learning something from their sister and learning something else from their parents, and in the end they would have to choose between the family members--that's not good. If your parents don't want them to learn about Islam specifically, it is better to wait until they are older and can understand the situation.
Either way, good luck to you.
If I had a relative who was trying to indoctrinate my children they would feel the wrath of my sword! I would smite them with great vengeance!
You cannot teach what you do not know. Until you learn that Islam is phony baloney, do not try to teach it to anyone. Once you learn that, you can teach both the beliefs and the errors.
Teaching children religion, unless you are presenting it as mythology, is child abuse.
Unless you want their views to be warped, allow Allah to reveal himself.
I have a thought, if youre not too self righteous to consider the view of a non-muslim who has studied Islam in great depth.
First, show them that you have really done your homework, and compared Islam to other explainations, after all, some Muslims do make the claim that Islam requires an intellectual choice, among other.
So heres a website about evoultion, its no too complicated and has a fun video display, show it to the kids and then explain to them, after they have had a chance to understand it, why its false. They will be impressed. http://www.becominghuman.org/
Also, if your religious choice isnt blind faith and is truely intellectual, you will show them supposed Quran errors and then explain why the errors arent errors.
Heres one you can show them, let them process first (if your fair) then explain why its not an error:
Quran 18:86 “(Zul-Qarnain travelled till) when he reached the setting of the sun, he found it set in a spring of murky water: near it (sun in spring) he found a People” http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/quran/018.qm…
Best way to teach kids is to make it fun
Your best bet is to teach by example. Lead a righteous life and be kind to them. Don't force it on them. Stress the positive aspects of your religion, don't try to scare them into belief with comments about suffering in the afterlife if they don't convert/pray in your faith.
You'll have to explain to them why there's so much violence being done in the name of your religion, and this will be hard in this day and age. Which is why it's doubly important that you lead by example, don't raise your voice, be strident, or violent about anything.
You may feel it's your duty, but remember it's not your right. If they don't want your teaching, it means you aren't the right one to do this. Perhaps find someone else (an author's writings?) that may speak to them more clearly.
There's a lot of beauty in your religion. Presented properly, at the very least they'll come to appreciate it and respect it, if not accept it. Be grateful if you accomplish this much.
Oh, btw, at their age, the best way to teach is by parable or story. I would take the time once, twice a day to tell one of these in a manner that would be appropriate to a child. The moral should be touched on lightly, but make it fun! They are kids, and kids love stories. Work on your story telling skills, make it fun, and they'll enjoy what you teach them, and learn at the same time!
you shouldn't be brainwashing them at such a young age. i know you THINK you would be doing the right thing but at their age they can not understand something as complex as theology.
You could show them the movie, Flight 77.
Only if your mother and father agree. They can learn by watching you.
The problem with islam today is the same problem other faiths have had in the past.
The killers/rapiests and nuts control islam today so even if islam is a religion of peace..it is hijacked by the killers and is the exact opposite as long as those in control conitnue to promote murder suicide and etc...
im not a muslim but i have some advice why dont you let them find religion on their own dont force it on them and allah gives credit? never heard that before and no offense but you are not their parent its not your decsion to teach your siblings religion if your mother says its ok then so be it
Make duaa ALLAH SWT puts them on Siraltal Mustaqueem and may we die on it INSHA ALLAH SWT. AMEEN.
the web sites in the sources teaches u how to pray. my cousin converted his non-muslim son. he bought him some quran for the young reader books. it teaches u about the quran with pictures and simple words.
Teaching to kill the Innocent not a bad thing for Islam children, there being taught to be suicide bombers daily now.
swt = christianity
islam = all the other religions...
Here's the simply Solution for religion:
Eliminate religion from Your Life, A.S.A.P.;
Freedom of religion is Freedom FROM religion; religion is Spiritual fraud;
Universal Truth eliminated religion from Spirituality a long time ago;
Accomplish this:
Create a Private, Personal, Direct, Divine Relationship with Our Creator and save Your Soul from religion's and atheist's beliefs and start Your journey back home, to Heaven.
%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt; UnConditional Love is the only answer %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;
Love and Believe in Our Creator;
Love and Believe in Yourself.
Only with Our Creator's Love and Peace will we be Truly Free!
praise to UnConditional Love and NOT religion (SWT) %26amp; (PHUB) (or whatever initials I put here) !!!
Learn about Jesus, he is the Savior in this world
Show them John 14: 6 in the Bible that should do it.
Walaikum Salam.
The best thing you can do is get them involved with other Muslim children. Talk to them in terms of what they would understand. Teach them how much love Islam has and how much they will love it. Instead of buying them things which miht be a little overwhelming at first, go slow. By your sister some cute hijabs. Take her with you, get her involved in picking her own hijab. Give her nice children books that talk about the sahaba's, about Prophets (pbuh) wives. For your brother do the same. Get them interested. Show them islamic cartoons and stuff. Pray in front of them and say everything out loud.
I know your parents might not agree with you doing all of this in front of them. Maybe you can invite them over to your place every weekend. Or if they are far then you might want to talk to your parents and consult with them. After all, you are doing your job. What your siblings decide later, is going to be their choice.
May Allah help you in your good deed. AmeenSisters %26amp; brothers in Islam can I get some advice on how to teach my sister and brother about Islam?
http://www.al-islam.org/ (the best Islamic Encyclopedia).
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u make islam sound scary
pleeaaasssee spare me the agony!
make sure they learn to connect the red wire to the button
I'm not Muslim, but there are some really cool DVDs and coloring books, etc. at various Islamic bookstores. I recall to mind SoundVision's wonderful DVDs aimed at explaining Islam to the little ones, even prayers. A guy I used to talk to at a local Islamic bookstore (in PA) always recommended the book on prayer aimed at kids to make Salat simpler to learn.
Hope that helps some.
edit/addition: Goddess BLESS am I the only person sans hate for someone just because they're Muslim?! When will you people (haters) realize that hate only begets hate. Stop the madness already and leave people alone if you disagree. This woman isn't causing any direct harm/suffering I could imagine.
_()_
I'm not a Muslim but I understand your situation. Instead of going so far as to buy them things, try telling them simple Arabic kid's tales. They don't even have to be Islamic. First get them interested in Islamic culture, so they'll WANT to learn more. Then as you find more tales you can start teaching them about Islam using the stories. Like if in one story there is a guy who prays, you could ask your sister or brother why he prays like that, and if they would like to learn to pray to Allah like in Islam...things like that.
It is probably not a good idea to go against your parents' wishes though (not saying you are, you didn't mention them much). But if you are, it would be simply confusing to the kids to be learning something from their sister and learning something else from their parents, and in the end they would have to choose between the family members--that's not good. If your parents don't want them to learn about Islam specifically, it is better to wait until they are older and can understand the situation.
Either way, good luck to you.
If I had a relative who was trying to indoctrinate my children they would feel the wrath of my sword! I would smite them with great vengeance!
You cannot teach what you do not know. Until you learn that Islam is phony baloney, do not try to teach it to anyone. Once you learn that, you can teach both the beliefs and the errors.
Teaching children religion, unless you are presenting it as mythology, is child abuse.
Unless you want their views to be warped, allow Allah to reveal himself.
I have a thought, if youre not too self righteous to consider the view of a non-muslim who has studied Islam in great depth.
First, show them that you have really done your homework, and compared Islam to other explainations, after all, some Muslims do make the claim that Islam requires an intellectual choice, among other.
So heres a website about evoultion, its no too complicated and has a fun video display, show it to the kids and then explain to them, after they have had a chance to understand it, why its false. They will be impressed. http://www.becominghuman.org/
Also, if your religious choice isnt blind faith and is truely intellectual, you will show them supposed Quran errors and then explain why the errors arent errors.
Heres one you can show them, let them process first (if your fair) then explain why its not an error:
Quran 18:86 “(Zul-Qarnain travelled till) when he reached the setting of the sun, he found it set in a spring of murky water: near it (sun in spring) he found a People” http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/quran/018.qm…
Best way to teach kids is to make it fun
Your best bet is to teach by example. Lead a righteous life and be kind to them. Don't force it on them. Stress the positive aspects of your religion, don't try to scare them into belief with comments about suffering in the afterlife if they don't convert/pray in your faith.
You'll have to explain to them why there's so much violence being done in the name of your religion, and this will be hard in this day and age. Which is why it's doubly important that you lead by example, don't raise your voice, be strident, or violent about anything.
You may feel it's your duty, but remember it's not your right. If they don't want your teaching, it means you aren't the right one to do this. Perhaps find someone else (an author's writings?) that may speak to them more clearly.
There's a lot of beauty in your religion. Presented properly, at the very least they'll come to appreciate it and respect it, if not accept it. Be grateful if you accomplish this much.
Oh, btw, at their age, the best way to teach is by parable or story. I would take the time once, twice a day to tell one of these in a manner that would be appropriate to a child. The moral should be touched on lightly, but make it fun! They are kids, and kids love stories. Work on your story telling skills, make it fun, and they'll enjoy what you teach them, and learn at the same time!
you shouldn't be brainwashing them at such a young age. i know you THINK you would be doing the right thing but at their age they can not understand something as complex as theology.
You could show them the movie, Flight 77.
Only if your mother and father agree. They can learn by watching you.
The problem with islam today is the same problem other faiths have had in the past.
The killers/rapiests and nuts control islam today so even if islam is a religion of peace..it is hijacked by the killers and is the exact opposite as long as those in control conitnue to promote murder suicide and etc...
im not a muslim but i have some advice why dont you let them find religion on their own dont force it on them and allah gives credit? never heard that before and no offense but you are not their parent its not your decsion to teach your siblings religion if your mother says its ok then so be it
Make duaa ALLAH SWT puts them on Siraltal Mustaqueem and may we die on it INSHA ALLAH SWT. AMEEN.
the web sites in the sources teaches u how to pray. my cousin converted his non-muslim son. he bought him some quran for the young reader books. it teaches u about the quran with pictures and simple words.
Teaching to kill the Innocent not a bad thing for Islam children, there being taught to be suicide bombers daily now.
swt = christianity
islam = all the other religions...
Here's the simply Solution for religion:
Eliminate religion from Your Life, A.S.A.P.;
Freedom of religion is Freedom FROM religion; religion is Spiritual fraud;
Universal Truth eliminated religion from Spirituality a long time ago;
Accomplish this:
Create a Private, Personal, Direct, Divine Relationship with Our Creator and save Your Soul from religion's and atheist's beliefs and start Your journey back home, to Heaven.
%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;%26lt; UnConditional Love is the only answer %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;
Love and Believe in Our Creator;
Love and Believe in Yourself.
Only with Our Creator's Love and Peace will we be Truly Free!
praise to UnConditional Love and NOT religion (SWT) %26amp; (PHUB) (or whatever initials I put here) !!!
Learn about Jesus, he is the Savior in this world
Show them John 14: 6 in the Bible that should do it.
Can anyone from Southern Ireland give me advice on how\where to look for rented accomidation and rates???
Try Daft!Can anyone from Southern Ireland give me advice on how\where to look for rented accomidation and rates???
Thanks for the vote! I found my Dublin apartment from Daft. Found them to be the most up-to-date.
Can anyone from Southern Ireland give me advice on how\where to look for rented accomidation and rates???
Depends what county you want to go to....
If you go to Dublin or one of the surrounding counties like Kildare, you'll find the accommodation more expensive than say Leitrim or Clare.
There are LOADS of websites on accommodation in Eire.
Try a search engine. Only you know what you're looking for.
Thanks for the vote! I found my Dublin apartment from Daft. Found them to be the most up-to-date.
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Can anyone from Southern Ireland give me advice on how\where to look for rented accomidation and rates???
Depends what county you want to go to....
If you go to Dublin or one of the surrounding counties like Kildare, you'll find the accommodation more expensive than say Leitrim or Clare.
There are LOADS of websites on accommodation in Eire.
Try a search engine. Only you know what you're looking for.
Give me an advice on how to make a girl fall for me?
pllsss i want my inspiration girl to fall in love with me plsssGive me an advice on how to make a girl fall for me?
You can't make someone fall for you Dude.
If someone tells you that it's possible, they don't know what they're talking about.
If they don't love you for who you are, then they don't really love you.Give me an advice on how to make a girl fall for me?
Let her see your love, so She will love U.
Sure. WASTE you life here asking questions instead of being with her. Years from now she'll miss you and wonder what happened to you and you'll still be here racking up points so you'll never know...
Just show the REAL you,thats the best advice I can give you.
make it step by step.
send letters to her locker (anonymous), then flowers or choclate 'till you see it's freaking her out to know who you are,then send her a letter to meet you somewhere and then tell her you did all of this in order to be with her (be as honest as you can).
i'm sure she'll fall for you!
good luck!
Make lot of money!
Go to the gim.... be strong like the WWF championship
You can't make someone fall for you Dude.
If someone tells you that it's possible, they don't know what they're talking about.
If they don't love you for who you are, then they don't really love you.Give me an advice on how to make a girl fall for me?
Let her see your love, so She will love U.
Sure. WASTE you life here asking questions instead of being with her. Years from now she'll miss you and wonder what happened to you and you'll still be here racking up points so you'll never know...
Just show the REAL you,thats the best advice I can give you.
make it step by step.
send letters to her locker (anonymous), then flowers or choclate 'till you see it's freaking her out to know who you are,then send her a letter to meet you somewhere and then tell her you did all of this in order to be with her (be as honest as you can).
i'm sure she'll fall for you!
good luck!
Make lot of money!
Go to the gim.... be strong like the WWF championship
My cousin needs advice on how to ask this girl out?
he's 11 (turning 12), he's on his way to 7th grade. He really liked this girl, he always mention her name everytime we talk. He told me that the girl is smart pretty and nice, so is my cuz. But he's really shy to asked her out.What should he tell her?My cousin needs advice on how to ask this girl out?
Tell him to just ask her out!!!!!! If she says no then just walk away and say thank you!!!!My cousin needs advice on how to ask this girl out?
he should just be straight up with her and be like i like you as more than a friend...wil you go out with mee.
it might be easier if he has her screen name or something and does it over the computer rather than in person
Is this cousin YOU by any chance?
Tell him to just ask her out!!!!!! If she says no then just walk away and say thank you!!!!My cousin needs advice on how to ask this girl out?
he should just be straight up with her and be like i like you as more than a friend...wil you go out with mee.
it might be easier if he has her screen name or something and does it over the computer rather than in person
Is this cousin YOU by any chance?
Gay guys: any advice on how to get a guy for a girl?
whats the best strategy to get a boyfriend for a girl?Gay guys: any advice on how to get a guy for a girl?
Look for a guy who's obviously shy and that you find attractive.
All you have to do is 1) GENTLY break down his barriers, and 2) talk to him in a way that lets him know you're interested- and mean it. If you're even halfway good-looking and/or have a decent personality, he'll fall like a stone.
Do not make the assumption that a person like this isn't worth knowing. Just like everyone else, you don't know until you know 'em.Gay guys: any advice on how to get a guy for a girl?
why don't you be her boyfriend?
flash them
look for one!mask making
Look for a guy who's obviously shy and that you find attractive.
All you have to do is 1) GENTLY break down his barriers, and 2) talk to him in a way that lets him know you're interested- and mean it. If you're even halfway good-looking and/or have a decent personality, he'll fall like a stone.
Do not make the assumption that a person like this isn't worth knowing. Just like everyone else, you don't know until you know 'em.Gay guys: any advice on how to get a guy for a girl?
why don't you be her boyfriend?
flash them
look for one!
I'M OF OUT TONIGHT!! any good advice on how to pull?
I wanna try some new pulling techniques as i think mine may need renewing anyone got any good advice?I'M OF OUT TONIGHT!! any good advice on how to pull?
'; I'm of out tonite'; What in the world does that mean?I'M OF OUT TONIGHT!! any good advice on how to pull?
Pulling what...don't understand. Maybe I'm too old.
Smile a LOT!!!!!
WHAT?!
if by pulling u mean getting a bf just be nice
no your not too old i dont understand it either. what the heck? k nevamind i don't want to know...
ya what the hec does that mean. add som details
Just look in my direction long enough
make eye contact as if you really mean it
and I am yours
xxx
uhhhh.....are you talking about sex hear?
... que?
love i think you should edit ur question no one gets it lol i do though.
just be extremely flirty!
'; I'm of out tonite'; What in the world does that mean?I'M OF OUT TONIGHT!! any good advice on how to pull?
Pulling what...don't understand. Maybe I'm too old.
Smile a LOT!!!!!
WHAT?!
if by pulling u mean getting a bf just be nice
no your not too old i dont understand it either. what the heck? k nevamind i don't want to know...
ya what the hec does that mean. add som details
Just look in my direction long enough
make eye contact as if you really mean it
and I am yours
xxx
uhhhh.....are you talking about sex hear?
... que?
love i think you should edit ur question no one gets it lol i do though.
just be extremely flirty!
I am 23 .. very petite.. i need advice on how to look matured .. make up and wardrobe wise. or watever way!!?
its sad some people even think i am 16 17.. yup .. looking young can be a problem to some!I am 23 .. very petite.. i need advice on how to look matured .. make up and wardrobe wise. or watever way!!?
H %26amp; M
http://www.hm.com/us/#/fashion9/
Steve and Barry's
http://www.steveandbarrys.com/
Check the internet for other trendy and up to date clothing websites.
Consider getting a make over from a make up artist at a cosmetics counter.
Select pics of hairstyles that you love and take them to your hair dresser.
And be yourself!
~Miss Makeover~
http://www.TheMakeoverWebsite.comI am 23 .. very petite.. i need advice on how to look matured .. make up and wardrobe wise. or watever way!!?
Wear LOTS of makeup, especially eyeliner to the point that u could easily Jane Goodall a family of raccoons, use hot pink lipstick, bright green eyeshadow, wear LOTS of polyester and old lady clothes, SMOKE ALOT, talk about menopause and wear bifocal granny like glasses and dye ur hair grey and walk with a hunch and that should do it!
show us some pics
http://www.juicycouture.com/store/catalo鈥?/a>
wear more brownies and charles n' keith high heels and put ur hair up and wear this really bronzy soft skin makeup. NOW THAT WOULD DO IT. I guarentee
I would say attitude and speech..
Just buy more sophisticated clothing.
go here http://www.reinventyourself.webs.com
H %26amp; M
http://www.hm.com/us/#/fashion9/
Steve and Barry's
http://www.steveandbarrys.com/
Check the internet for other trendy and up to date clothing websites.
Consider getting a make over from a make up artist at a cosmetics counter.
Select pics of hairstyles that you love and take them to your hair dresser.
And be yourself!
~Miss Makeover~
http://www.TheMakeoverWebsite.comI am 23 .. very petite.. i need advice on how to look matured .. make up and wardrobe wise. or watever way!!?
Wear LOTS of makeup, especially eyeliner to the point that u could easily Jane Goodall a family of raccoons, use hot pink lipstick, bright green eyeshadow, wear LOTS of polyester and old lady clothes, SMOKE ALOT, talk about menopause and wear bifocal granny like glasses and dye ur hair grey and walk with a hunch and that should do it!
show us some pics
http://www.juicycouture.com/store/catalo鈥?/a>
wear more brownies and charles n' keith high heels and put ur hair up and wear this really bronzy soft skin makeup. NOW THAT WOULD DO IT. I guarentee
I would say attitude and speech..
Just buy more sophisticated clothing.
go here http://www.reinventyourself.webs.com
Anybody got any advice on how to go up to a girl that you dont know and juss talk to ?
what should i say when i wanna go up to a girl that i dont know and juss talk to herAnybody got any advice on how to go up to a girl that you dont know and juss talk to ?
Just do it, ask her for directions, or the time of day. If you are wearing a watch, say you think it's off or something.
Say, ';do I know you, you look familiar?';
Anything will start a conversation. If you are working or in school together, that makes it easier.
But if you are total strangers, just smile and ask some simple question, and go from there.Anybody got any advice on how to go up to a girl that you dont know and juss talk to ?
if you really want to talk to her then just plan it.
pretend to accidently run into her and then take it from there
ask wot her name is
ask her different q's but not too personal
strike up a conversation with her like you would to a best friend
ok?
just bump into her at skatin on ';accident'; and just become friends wit her then find out the personal stuff like does she have a b/f and how old she is and just things like that well good luck peace
Just do it, ask her for directions, or the time of day. If you are wearing a watch, say you think it's off or something.
Say, ';do I know you, you look familiar?';
Anything will start a conversation. If you are working or in school together, that makes it easier.
But if you are total strangers, just smile and ask some simple question, and go from there.Anybody got any advice on how to go up to a girl that you dont know and juss talk to ?
if you really want to talk to her then just plan it.
pretend to accidently run into her and then take it from there
ask wot her name is
ask her different q's but not too personal
strike up a conversation with her like you would to a best friend
ok?
just bump into her at skatin on ';accident'; and just become friends wit her then find out the personal stuff like does she have a b/f and how old she is and just things like that well good luck peace
I need some advice about how to get my best friend to e-mail me back?
Say you are sorry and If he would please reconsider dumping you.
As his best friend he should have a soft spot for you.
Send him a puppy dog photo.
As his best friend he should have a soft spot for you.
Send him a puppy dog photo.
Hi there i am 12 stone and i need to lose at least 5 stone witin 6 mouths got any advice on how to do this?
you want to get down to 7stone ? that's not a healthy weightHi there i am 12 stone and i need to lose at least 5 stone witin 6 mouths got any advice on how to do this?
Try cutting off your legs and maybe your arms too. That shouldn't take much more than a day.
Try cutting off your legs and maybe your arms too. That shouldn't take much more than a day.
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