Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??

my friend is a sun Leo...an ultra Leo (his rising sign is Leo)....our friendship is close and we really like each other. we have our great differences, yet we have so much in common and we think alike. but i have also experienced some difficulties with him. for example, when we have chatted on messenger, i have accidently typed the wrong messaage to him (it was for another person i was chatting with), i appologize to him, then he seems to get unhappy, and tells me that we should chat some other time. why does he do this?? i am perfectly able to chat with several persons simultaneously! other times, when ive takend longer to respond to respond to him, he gets mad and assmumes that i no longer want to talk to him. he makes many wrong assmumptions then assumes they're all true...and it frustrates me. the only way i can get him to snap out of it is telling him and assuring him that i really do like him.





can i get some advice to get him to stop making many wrong assumptions??Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
skip the clown outfit..he wont like it.. whats your sign?


He wants devotion...dont expect to chat with others when he is talking with you...Advice on how to handle a tough, stubborn Leo male??
such a shame that such a ******* duma** answer got chosen!!

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Speaking as an Ultra-Leo myself... You will never stop him making these assumptions...





He is right, you are wrong.. Whatever the situation (or at least, this is how he sees it)





If you take the situation where you were chatting to multiple people... This is your bad... You cannot be giving him your full attention, therefore.. You feel he is not worthy of any attention at all (He will think)





Similarly, if you take a long time to answer, he will assume that you are doing something that you consider more important - He will take this as a personal slieght.





Ultra-Leo males are hair-triggered and impulsive. They are also fiercely loyal, but get extremely upset if this loyalty is not mirrored in other people..





They have to be the most important, correct, trustworth, likeable, popular person in the room..





If you don't pray at the altar of the Ultra-Leo.. You'd better watch out..





Their Egos are fragile - And when they do shatter, they do so with a bang - Which can lead to depression problems when the realities of life come flooding home to them..
I have been with my Leo man for 5 years and I know exactly what your going through. What this guy is doing is trying to get all of your attention. He doesn't like the fact that you chat with other people. Even if you don't like another guy and you told him you like him. In his mind he comes first if you like him. And, he also thinks that if you like him so much there should be no need to chat with anybody else whether their males or females. Leo men can be insanely jealous!!!!!


If you really like this guy and you want something with him such as a relationship then I want you to know right now that he is going to demand all of your attention. If he doesn't get it he's going to throw a fit in some form or fashion so that he does get your attention. Just flatter him and tell him things about himself that sound really great. Even if they aren't to you just tell him anyway because a Leo man loves nothing more than to be told something good about himself. Just remember the two main important things. Give him a lot of attention, and boost his ego. (Even though it's already inflated) *lol*


I have my Leo man eating out of the palm of my hand. I do both of these things constantly with my man and I swear he tries to give me the world. Leo's are very generous and romantic so once you get on their good side and truly have their love then you have hit the jackpot. If your the type that's not into giving attention, etc..... then you should probably move on. Either way good luck!!! I'm a Sagittarius by the way.





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Sorry for writing a book *lol*
Lowlevel pretty much hit the nail on the head with this one. Leos have extremely tender egos, but you'd never know because they are constantly putting themselves on a pedestal. They are the Kings of the Jungle, or at least in their own minds, they are. They don't like being told what to do or being out of control in a situation. This was certainly the case with my Leo ex. Also, they are a Fixed Sign, which accounts for the stubbornness. When they put their foots down, that's it. There's no way their gonna budge from their mind set. I'd say, be patient, give the lion a chance to cool off, and then go back, nice and sweetly. Stroke his ego and tell him how much you value the friendship. He'll purr like the big kitty he is. Good luck!
I`m a Leo and I can say that I intend to be impatient. And it`s not only me. I also observe this from my friends who are Leo`s as well. Leo`s are also stubborn. Once they set their mind on something, you have to REALLY persuave them to change their opinion. We don`t also like to admit to our faults.





If he keeps on assuming things, you should just have a face to face talk to him. If he doesn`t listen, you should think of taking a break for a while.





Best of luck!
HELLO HELLO,MsCapricorn it aint gonna work he will give you too many HEADACHES ,i say NEXT
Oh some men and women just get mad over anything. Don't let that bother you and blow it off your shoulder. You probally got bigger things to worry about anyway.some things that he wouldn't even begin to understand so just be nice to him anyway. He can;t be mean to someone who is being good to him at the same time. God Bless You. Oh and if he can still be mean then it is time to let this person be gone out of your life. Thamks.
Leo men can be impatient and very JEALOUS. They also want all the attention (Leo woman are this way also). And then with some men no matter how many times you tell them u like them it's never enough. They just like their ego to be stroked continuously. I can say that maybe you need to be a little more tough with him and stop catering to his needs. After all he is a FIRE sign it wont hurt him at all. He'll probably like your aggressive nature change.