Any advice on how to get over this feeling please?

If you really miss someone you cared for and still dream of them but you know deep down that if you contact and see them again you will get hurt so need to protect yourself how do you get over this and stop this feeling?Any advice on how to get over this feeling please?
Move onnnnnn!!!!!! Find someone better and you won't need to protect yourself. Therapy might help you find out why you would ever want to contact someone you know is going to hurt you. Maybe you have a little self hate going on that you can't get over that makes you want to get even remotely near someone you know will hurt you.Any advice on how to get over this feeling please?
take you mind off them by doing things you love, injoy yourself meet new people, and in time you'll see they wasn't right for you.
find friends you are close to, let them know how you are feeling, they will take care of the rest. Rely on your friends, they will give you more strength then you know.
Hi Dave, This is hard you still love someone but you know you will only get hurt. It will take you a very long time to move on with your life. I let a great guy walk out of my life a very long time ago. I never got over it but i moved on. You have to. But something happen after i left my EX husband and finally got my Divorce. I have found the man who is my soulmate and it's the man i let walk out of my life. I will not get hurt and he won't get hurt. We are going to become 1 person here soon. Anyway it is very hard but you do have to move on and find someone else in your life. One thing i no you will not forget this girl. Try and get your life together again. You can do it but you need time to do so.


A Friend.


Clowmy
If you really cared for someone, it will always be difficult to let go. That's ok, it's normal. At first, moving on will be a real struggle. Hey! that still ok too. But keeping yourself wrapped up in that old feeling - that's not ok. The thing is, you really need TO CONVINCE YOURSELF that you need to move on. That's the first step. That, my friend is the start.





If you feel that avoiding the person, not seeing that person, keeping yourself busy, surrounding yourself with people who truly care about you - would help you, then by all means do just that. Whatever helps, makes it easy for you, do just that. Just remember: when the door closes, keep the windows open ok? Good Luck!
Don't make contact and try meeting someone else
Get a new life. MAke new friends not associated with this person. Volunteer somewhere.Hope I helped you out.
You are gonna feel like this for a while, and there's nothin to do about it. From experience, dont contact them, it will just make things harder for you. Its something you just have to wait out and get over. Then you'll look back and be like why was I so worked up over that person, its just not worth it.
I agree with above answer
Join a club and meet more people, you need to get over this one and move on. There's no reason to go back to anyone who causes you hurt.